I haven't read any comments in this thread, but here are my 2 cents..

How can you tell someone that their feeling is lust on not love.. You can't, this is why it is called "lust".. Then again how does anyone know which one it really is? No one does, not even you.. If its "THE ONE" then it will be "THE ONE" but only time will tell.. Don't jump to conclusion champ, most, if not all of us have gone through what you are going through right now and found out that it really wasn't "THE ONE"..

Think about this, there are a lot more unsuccessful relationships than there are successful ones.. Out of those successful ones, a few marry.. Finally, 50% of marriages end in divorce.. And the 50% that stay married are not necessarily healthy, loyal, successful marriages.. So yeah, don't get too excited there miracle boy..