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    Quote Originally Posted by 00_Rusty™
    Forgiven my son. But don't you think that it is just a wee bit ridiculous to let a chick get you this twisted?
    Reps if i can for being an adult. It is ridiculous man and thats what i can't wrap my mind around is where to draw the ****ing line in the sand. I have given so much yet asked for nothing and yet it never seems like enough. And then on top of all this ****. I'm trying to make plans for new years and as my dad didn't have anyone to spend it with i didn't just want to leave him and my girlfriend and her mom are breathing down my neck about coming over and staying the night after i told her i didnt feel right about just leaving him and that even if i did he wouldnt let me stay the night. and her mom as usual chiming in her two cents in the background telling me to just ask or whatever and it pisses me off. there is no respect from her or her mom for what i want its what they want when they want no exceptions. example her mom bought her tickets to the american idol concert for her birthday without knowing what our school schedules were going to be like at the time. then when i found out that i was going to have a class i told her that my dad wasn't going to let me go. and what do i get from her mom? that she's not oging if i don't take her and yada yada yada. and that pissed me off and my dad off even more. and then last night i pick her up to watch the game and told her i would drop herr off a lil after 11 and she said ok but what happens in the middle of the third quarter right as the pats are rallying back. her mom calling demanding that i bring her home because she needs to take her dog out after i had already told her when she would be home and she agreed. i'm just saying im tired of giving without asking for anything but yet no matter how much i give its never enough thats why i was so stubborn on this. See what I'm saying?
    Quote Originally Posted by AlanŽ
    Nah not even. theres not enough alcohol on the planet that would convince me to bang that chick.I wouldn't hit that with Magic Johnson's dick.....on second thought
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    Quote Originally Posted by redGT
    Reps if i can for being an adult. It is ridiculous man and thats what i can't wrap my mind around is where to draw the ****ing line in the sand. I have given so much yet asked for nothing and yet it never seems like enough. And then on top of all this ****. I'm trying to make plans for new years and as my dad didn't have anyone to spend it with i didn't just want to leave him and my girlfriend and her mom are breathing down my neck about coming over and staying the night after i told her i didnt feel right about just leaving him and that even if i did he wouldnt let me stay the night. and her mom as usual chiming in her two cents in the background telling me to just ask or whatever and it pisses me off. there is no respect from her or her mom for what i want its what they want when they want no exceptions. example her mom bought her tickets to the american idol concert for her birthday without knowing what our school schedules were going to be like at the time. then when i found out that i was going to have a class i told her that my dad wasn't going to let me go. and what do i get from her mom? that she's not oging if i don't take her and yada yada yada. and that pissed me off and my dad off even more. and then last night i pick her up to watch the game and told her i would drop herr off a lil after 11 and she said ok but what happens in the middle of the third quarter right as the pats are rallying back. her mom calling demanding that i bring her home because she needs to take her dog out after i had already told her when she would be home and she agreed. i'm just saying im tired of giving without asking for anything but yet no matter how much i give its never enough thats why i was so stubborn on this. See what I'm saying?
    I understand dude. I have been there, and it sucks. Just go hang out with some friends, do something not to think about it so much. It'll get better.
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    point is i shouldn't have to go do something to not think about it so much it shouldnt be like this
    Quote Originally Posted by AlanŽ
    Nah not even. theres not enough alcohol on the planet that would convince me to bang that chick.I wouldn't hit that with Magic Johnson's dick.....on second thought
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    as long as u or uf gf live with your parents, you will always be faced with BS from both sides. So get used to it, until u move out.

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    yea but this isnt the first time she has made me stop hanging out with someone or stop talking to someone i have friends that i go to college with but i can't hang out with because of her so i sit in my dorm all week with no one to hang out or talk to all week. and then i get home and hang out with her all weekend and do it all over agiain. i'm tired of it man for real
    Quote Originally Posted by AlanŽ
    Nah not even. theres not enough alcohol on the planet that would convince me to bang that chick.I wouldn't hit that with Magic Johnson's dick.....on second thought
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    i think we need pics of current girlfriend and ex to make a true decision on this

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    Quote Originally Posted by redGT
    yea but this isnt the first time she has made me stop hanging out with someone or stop talking to someone i have friends that i go to college with but i can't hang out with because of her so i sit in my dorm all week with no one to hang out or talk to all week. and then i get home and hang out with her all weekend and do it all over agiain. i'm tired of it man for real

    well make a decision, and tell us what happens....

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    I am not posting pics of the ex cause yall will laugh but hte current is an upgrade fo sho

    Quote Originally Posted by AlanŽ
    Nah not even. theres not enough alcohol on the planet that would convince me to bang that chick.I wouldn't hit that with Magic Johnson's dick.....on second thought
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    Quote Originally Posted by redGT
    yea but this isnt the first time she has made me stop hanging out with someone or stop talking to someone i have friends that i go to college with but i can't hang out with because of her so i sit in my dorm all week with no one to hang out or talk to all week. and then i get home and hang out with her all weekend and do it all over agiain. i'm tired of it man for real
    Long distance relationship FTMFL. Get a totally new chick that doesn't suck so much (read: not the ex, either).
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    its not a long distance relationship we both go to the same school only i live on campus she commutes
    Quote Originally Posted by AlanŽ
    Nah not even. theres not enough alcohol on the planet that would convince me to bang that chick.I wouldn't hit that with Magic Johnson's dick.....on second thought
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    Quote Originally Posted by redGT
    its not a long distance relationship we both go to the same school only i live on campus she commutes
    If you have to travel to hang out, then it is long distance to me. Is she your girlfriend from highschool? I have found that highschool relationships usually suck because with the limited amount of people to choose from, it makes you have to "deal with" a lot more stuff in a relationship than you should.

    Your current GF seems too controlling (along with long distance), so I say that you should start dating other girls (definitely not the ex, though). There's a million of them out there.
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    No offense man but you're being hardheaded as fawk. Leave the girl who cheated on you because "once a cheater, always a cheater." You might not be dating but she'll screw you over as a friend eventually. You said you loved her to death did you not? Then why don't you do that to fulfill her wishes. I'm telling you man, from experience, it will only get worse. Do the right thing the first time because if you don't it'll come back to bite you. In the long run, this will cause you so many problems that you will not be read to face cause they're all gonna come at you at once. It might even cause her to walk away from you. Don't take it as you're ***** whipped because that has nothing to do with this situation. I'm sure you'd do anything for the one you love, am I right? If so, then you know what to do man.
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    done did it homie thanks^
    Quote Originally Posted by AlanŽ
    Nah not even. theres not enough alcohol on the planet that would convince me to bang that chick.I wouldn't hit that with Magic Johnson's dick.....on second thought
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    You've given up everything but you havn't asked for anything? Sh1ttttttttttt, ask to do her dirty in the booty, ask for some upgrades on your car, ask for three somes. Damn son, you're playing the wrong game.
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    ^Oh now you see what I've been getting at. DaMN where was that like a hour ago when i needed it before i gave up.Lol
    Quote Originally Posted by AlanŽ
    Nah not even. theres not enough alcohol on the planet that would convince me to bang that chick.I wouldn't hit that with Magic Johnson's dick.....on second thought
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    LOL,my bad..

    Go get some alcohol but don't get trashed, just a bit tipsy, then enjoy some X360.
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    exactly my plan
    Quote Originally Posted by AlanŽ
    Nah not even. theres not enough alcohol on the planet that would convince me to bang that chick.I wouldn't hit that with Magic Johnson's dick.....on second thought
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    lol its simple if u dont want to listen to these peoples' advices and ur girl, just talk to her in secret and tell ur girl u stopped talking to her.

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    So the ex is uglier too???

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    what you think the current is ugly?^yea you would have hated the ex then
    Quote Originally Posted by AlanŽ
    Nah not even. theres not enough alcohol on the planet that would convince me to bang that chick.I wouldn't hit that with Magic Johnson's dick.....on second thought
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    Nah the current is very cute.. just confused as to why you would want to even associate with the ex if she did you dirty and you upgraded.

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    Quote Originally Posted by redGT
    so put someone else in the "skanks" shoes your saying that i should still ditch a friend for the sake of a relationship man come on be real

    if you really love the girl your with. ditch the skank.

    she cheated on you, she only wants to be friends with you cause deep down inside she wants to get back with you or use you. you are a moron for not seeing this.

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    ^see thats the funny thing she wanted nothing to do with me i had to make her act like an adult. you are an idiot for making assumptions
    Quote Originally Posted by AlanŽ
    Nah not even. theres not enough alcohol on the planet that would convince me to bang that chick.I wouldn't hit that with Magic Johnson's dick.....on second thought
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    you don't really love the girl your with if you can't ditch a girl who cheated on you to make this current one happy.

    sorry, bro, not as smart as you think

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    well i ditched her but if you had read the entire thread you would have seen what the real argument was about. it was about me giving and giving and giving and asking for nothing but yet it never seems like enough.
    Quote Originally Posted by AlanŽ
    Nah not even. theres not enough alcohol on the planet that would convince me to bang that chick.I wouldn't hit that with Magic Johnson's dick.....on second thought
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    Quote Originally Posted by redGT
    well i ditched her but if you had read the entire thread you would have seen what the real argument was about. it was about me giving and giving and giving and asking for nothing but yet it never seems like enough.

    If you are tired of giving so much, and not getting **** in return. Then dump your current girl, stay single and focus on yourself. You are 19. I dont give a **** how mature you are for your age. Youre still young. You have your whole life ahead of you to be in a relationship. At your age, you should ****ing around and being stupid. Not to the point where it runs the rest of your life.

    Secondly, if all your girl does is take, why are you with her? Is she really that perfect to be with, where you are miserable half the time, becuase her controlling mother is always in the way? And she is exactly like her mother?

    Geez...makes sense. But if that is what you want then go with it.

    Or you could be a man and tell her, that you always giving and her taking, and not getting anything in return is bogus, and try and and talk it out. But if then after you try that and it still doesnt get better, then step.

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    ^dually noted told her that i was tired of giving and never getting tonight but she was half asleep so saving the discussion for tommorow.I completely agree with you and have been thinking about leaving for a lil bit simply because of this but i'm trying to make it work.if i do dump her i will stay stingle for at least a year probably.reps if i can
    Quote Originally Posted by AlanŽ
    Nah not even. theres not enough alcohol on the planet that would convince me to bang that chick.I wouldn't hit that with Magic Johnson's dick.....on second thought
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    Quote Originally Posted by redGT
    ^dually noted told her that i was tired of giving and never getting tonight but she was half asleep so saving the discussion for tommorow.I completely agree with you and have been thinking about leaving for a lil bit simply because of this but i'm trying to make it work.if i do dump her i will stay stingle for at least a year probably.reps if i can

    Thanks, just no sense in being unhappy in a relationship. I learned the hard way, and I will not go through that **** again.

    Make yourself happy first, worry about girls later....most of the time they are nothing but trouble, everyonce in a while there is one or two that are worth the trouble...
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    yup been there done that
    Quote Originally Posted by AlanŽ
    Nah not even. theres not enough alcohol on the planet that would convince me to bang that chick.I wouldn't hit that with Magic Johnson's dick.....on second thought
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    hehe been there done that twice....
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    ouch
    Quote Originally Posted by AlanŽ
    Nah not even. theres not enough alcohol on the planet that would convince me to bang that chick.I wouldn't hit that with Magic Johnson's dick.....on second thought
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    Quote Originally Posted by tony
    so true so true.. I was mature at a young age too but doesn't mean I didnt make dumb decisions. As you get older you realize that the good ones do not come a dime a dozen so if she means that much to you.. it wouldn't even be a question of what you should or shouldnt do.

    I know if I had to choose between someone I love and a ex that cheated on me.. it would be a no brainer.
    Tony I agree to a point, but they probably do come a dime a dozen. Most just wont meet them all, if you get my drift.
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    Quote Originally Posted by WHAT_LAG
    Tony I agree to a point, but they probably do come a dime a dozen. Most just wont meet them all, if you get my drift.
    well hook me up when you come across an extra one cause I'm certainly not meeting them

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    Would you like it if ur girl was talking to her ex bf?

    when u are in a relationship.. trust me its not a good thing to talk/be friends with ur ex.. u can say trust me me nothing is going to happen but u can never really trust someone no matter how much u think u know them.

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    I would not tell her not to simply because im not that type of person and i told her that if the shoe was on the other foot and it was her in my shoes i wouldnt do anything about it because its not my business. but it doesnt matter she got what she wanted i deleted all her numbers and **** last night so
    Quote Originally Posted by AlanŽ
    Nah not even. theres not enough alcohol on the planet that would convince me to bang that chick.I wouldn't hit that with Magic Johnson's dick.....on second thought
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    Quote Originally Posted by redGT
    I would not tell her not to simply because im not that type of person and i told her that if the shoe was on the other foot and it was her in my shoes i wouldnt do anything about it because its not my business. but it doesnt matter she got what she wanted i deleted all her numbers and **** last night so
    if u are going out with someone u are her business and she is ur business..

    think about it this way if u kiss another girl that is ur girls business...

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    thats not even the same thing^
    Quote Originally Posted by AlanŽ
    Nah not even. theres not enough alcohol on the planet that would convince me to bang that chick.I wouldn't hit that with Magic Johnson's dick.....on second thought
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    Quote Originally Posted by tony
    well hook me up when you come across an extra one cause I'm certainly not meeting them
    Well if you would have told me 6 months ago, I had the perfect one for you. She is my best friend, she is a teacher in conyers. But you have to get out more, to meet these women they are there.
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    hmmmm so she is this insecure right now. i say leave her ass

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    ehh work keeps me tied up but I'll start coming around more often

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