No offense man but you're being hardheaded as fawk. Leave the girl who cheated on you because "once a cheater, always a cheater." You might not be dating but she'll screw you over as a friend eventually. You said you loved her to death did you not? Then why don't you do that to fulfill her wishes. I'm telling you man, from experience, it will only get worse. Do the right thing the first time because if you don't it'll come back to bite you. In the long run, this will cause you so many problems that you will not be read to face cause they're all gonna come at you at once. It might even cause her to walk away from you. Don't take it as you're ***** whipped because that has nothing to do with this situation. I'm sure you'd do anything for the one you love, am I right? If so, then you know what to do man.