Quote Originally Posted by redGT
Reps if i can for being an adult. It is ridiculous man and thats what i can't wrap my mind around is where to draw the ****ing line in the sand. I have given so much yet asked for nothing and yet it never seems like enough. And then on top of all this ****. I'm trying to make plans for new years and as my dad didn't have anyone to spend it with i didn't just want to leave him and my girlfriend and her mom are breathing down my neck about coming over and staying the night after i told her i didnt feel right about just leaving him and that even if i did he wouldnt let me stay the night. and her mom as usual chiming in her two cents in the background telling me to just ask or whatever and it pisses me off. there is no respect from her or her mom for what i want its what they want when they want no exceptions. example her mom bought her tickets to the american idol concert for her birthday without knowing what our school schedules were going to be like at the time. then when i found out that i was going to have a class i told her that my dad wasn't going to let me go. and what do i get from her mom? that she's not oging if i don't take her and yada yada yada. and that pissed me off and my dad off even more. and then last night i pick her up to watch the game and told her i would drop herr off a lil after 11 and she said ok but what happens in the middle of the third quarter right as the pats are rallying back. her mom calling demanding that i bring her home because she needs to take her dog out after i had already told her when she would be home and she agreed. i'm just saying im tired of giving without asking for anything but yet no matter how much i give its never enough thats why i was so stubborn on this. See what I'm saying?
I understand dude. I have been there, and it sucks. Just go hang out with some friends, do something not to think about it so much. It'll get better.