
Originally Posted by
Turbo04
wasn't very subtle was it? Wasn't trying to be. Fine lets steer this back on course then, answer my question. I would like to know if you are infact married and are speaking about this subject with some personal knowledge of it...I can tell you I am speaking about it from personal experiance, I'm married been through the classes for getting married and I've had multiple discussions with mutliple married couples regarding life in marriage. I've seen first hand how hard it is to have a sucessful marriage and I work at it daily. I came into the thread because everyone was crying bloody murder that *gasp* a married woman wanted a divorce and was going to get some money outta it. If you've never been married, how can you possibly have an informed idea of what it's like what comes with it? You can't build a rocket by watching someone else build one and you would need to have a firm understanding of all the mechanics involved to go out and tell someone else how to. So why is marriage different? The bottom line is not one of us in this thread has any real idea exactly what went on in that marriage, and not one of us is in any postition to start throwing stones at that woman for the money she stands to get from the divorce. I've said it before, there is not ONE victim in that up coming divorce. Now if it comes to light that she has been unfaithful in the marriage I'll be the first to say, yes hulk is a victim then, but as it sits there is no victim.