Quote Originally Posted by Tasuki_Civic
would you keep it in mind that you saw this number and then you saw it again? how would you feel? like something is going on?
You're still killing me with the crazy grammar, so it's hard to understand what you're trying to say.

If you are asking if I would question my wife for having some random phone number in her pocket, the answer is absolutely yes. If you're asking if I would think something was up, the answer is depends on what she says when I ask what's up. If it's shady, then yes. If it's logical, then no.

wouldnt you question because it made you think twice like who is this dude? and you would want to know if he was a threat to you or not?
Honestly, whomever he/she is can only be a threat to me if I let them. If my wife decided she needed something from someone else, she KNOWS she would have to KEEP that someone else because I wouldn't wait around for her, period. It's that clear cut and dry in my head. It really is.

I think you're understanding what I'm saying. I'm just saying that people that you care about should get the benefit of the doubt to begin with, don't think negatively, until they give you a reason NOT to. When they do, you have two choices; Give them another chance, or cut them loose. Either way, you will be better served if you let the other person hang themselves with a rope instead of you hanging everybody you come across at the slightest sign of problems. You may just hang someone that doesn't deserve it. That's all.