Dan and I have been together for 7 years I have menses #'s all up in my phone. When I go out, guys offer to buy me drinks and I accept. I get phone numbers and dance with all kinds of dudes. I have even gone to the male strip club and had a strippper call me the next day and Dan answered the phone...and handed it to me He's usually there with me while all of this goes on. He watches and laughs with his friends about it.

Dan's not like that really. He's shy for the most part. He has the occasional girl from his past call his phone. I'm not a jealous girl and I don't really care if another girl calls his phone.

I think it's about being secure in your relationship and being friends with your man. Dan is my BFF. We talk about everything and we know how each other is. If I found a number, I'd prolly pick on him about it and tell him how much game he doesn't have...since he didn't get the girl

I think the best thing is to always give the benefit of the doubt...especially if you have no reason to think other wise. I personally don't feel that phone numbers=cheating...although it could. I guess it just depends on the guidelines and expectations you 2 have set for your relationship.