Agreed 100%. For me, the cost should be such that any family working a respectable job should be able to afford it without going bankrupt (except maybe in the worst circumstances). I know this is somewhat vague because the exact details are too complex but this is my general opinion.
On an emotionally level I agree. I was raised to be responsible for myself and my actions. On an intellectual level though I recognize that others do not live by the same mantra and their actions still affect me through increased hospital costs and various other social issues. I would like to minimize those effects if possible.
I assume you are talking about immediately life threatening issues. Otherwise I believe hospitals can and do turn people away.
I disagree it's that simple (don't want it = don't pay for it). We pay taxes but certainly we do not all agree with every dollar spent on taxes. Likewise we pay for individuals who default on medical bills when we pay ours because the hospital has to recover their losses through paying customers.
To reiterate I don't believe those costs are accurate for many people in this country. For some people yes, but for everyone, no. Also many jobs require you have a phone so your employer can contact you so you can't necessarily make that trade.