POLL: How Secure Is Your Relationship

[roxie911]

So what you are saying is that Trust is stronger than Love... correct?

I don't think you can have love without trust. I couldn't trust my ex after he cheated. We tried to work things out, but he could never fully regain my trust and it killed our relationship.

[BABY J]

I don't think you can have love without trust. I couldn't trust my ex after he cheated. We tried to work things out, but he could never fully regain my trust and it killed our relationship.

Was it that he could never regain your trust, or could it be that you could never get over yourself (ego) enuff to allow yourself to trust him?

Those are 2 different things.

[roxie911]

Was it that he could never regain yoru trust, or could it be that you could never get over yoruself (ego) enuff to allow yourself to trust him?

Those are 2 different things.

Both, I guess. Plus the fact that I got yelled at for getting upset about it when I found out about it. That's probably the main reason, actually (now that I'm talking about it). Never felt like he was sorry.

I still stand by what I said though. I don't think you can have love without trust. If you tell someone you love them and that you want no one else, then you need to stick by it. I would break up with someone before I ever had sex with someone else.