I'll give a few closing responses based on the information you've posted so far.

My background. I enlisted in 2001 (before 9/11) as a private, 31U (signal support systems specialist) in the army. Did that for four years till I was a Sargent and then decided to get my Commission. I am now a 2LT in the Infantry, but will be going back to the Signal Corp once I'm a CAPT.

Driving record can be a show stopper, especially if you have unresolved tickets and sentencing. It a flag for getting a security clearance, which by the sounds of things is going to be a prerequisite for the kind of job you want. Bottom line, in order to get the necessary security clearance and be employable, you need to resolve your tickets.
Believe it or not, the desirable jobs in the military require a security clearance, so yeas this is important.

When applying for a security clearance, they look at EVERYTHING, including traffic. What they are ultimately looking for is to make sure you are not a felon, you don't associate with felons, you don't partake in high risk behavior, and you have your personal affairs in order to include your finances and driving record. Another big show stopper is TOO MUCH DEBT. Too much of a liability.

Special ops is not easy to get into, especially since there is a long line in front of you. Plus, there is a average 50% FAILURE rate once you get there. It is extremely demanding and is competitive to get into. Many people have to fight just to get a chance to go through the training.

One week without a shower??? HA!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! A shower will be an afterthought compared to the food and sleep you won't be getting. You'd probably have an easier time getting into Ranger School compared to the Special Forces Que Course, not that it isn't possible. Plus, as a Ranger, you'd be doing the things you seem to be wanting to do. Not for the meager, and not for the weak. It is 60 days of absolute hell, and it is this way on purpose. Believe it or not, it is worse than combat.

To recap, if you really want to get in, fix what they're telling you to fix. Resolve your tickets. If that means you have to wait a while because your license is suspended or what not, then go back once you've finished that out. Get all of your other affairs in order. I'm not saying you have other issues, as I don't know. If you do, then get them fixed. If you have something in your background you haven't revealed, like a felony or a DUI, your chances of getting in are almost non-existent and there's nothing that can be done. Pretty much, the days of being waivered in with that on your record, regardless of the circumstances, are done. Past all of this, there's not much more that can be added.