You know honestly, I think that sometimes you just "KNOW" you need to let it go. Like it just gets to a point when you realize that nothing that you two do together seems to produce anything worth owning...Like there is nothing productive from being with that person. At the same time, sometimes you just feel so drained from trying to make things work and it seems like there is no solution... believe me if this sounds familiar..Let it go.

Can you live without the other person in your life or does it feel like you cant breathe the same when they aren't around? does teh thought of losing them bring a tear to your eyes liek it would if it were a close family member?

I just see it like this:

If you're married, do any and everything to make it work, and consider counseling.

If you are engaged, at one point in time you saw yourself with this person FOREVER, what changed it and can you go back to the way things used to be?

If you are dating, and you ask the question you just posed in this thread...Let it go.