How do you know when to call it quits in a relationship?

[SLOWLYbtngU]

You know honestly, I think that sometimes you just "KNOW" you need to let it go. Like it just gets to a point when you realize that nothing that you two do together seems to produce anything worth owning...Like there is nothing productive from being with that person. At the same time, sometimes you just feel so drained from trying to make things work and it seems like there is no solution... believe me if this sounds familiar..Let it go.

Can you live without the other person in your life or does it feel like you cant breathe the same when they aren't around? does teh thought of losing them bring a tear to your eyes liek it would if it were a close family member?

I just see it like this:

If you're married, do any and everything to make it work, and consider counseling.

If you are engaged, at one point in time you saw yourself with this person FOREVER, what changed it and can you go back to the way things used to be?

If you are dating, and you ask the question you just posed in this thread...Let it go.

[william_jeff]

You know honestly, I think that sometimes you just "KNOW" you need to let it go. Like it just gets to a point when you realize that nothing that you two do together seems to produce anything worth owning...Like there is nothing productive from being with that person. At the same time, sometimes you just feel so drained from trying to make things work and it seems like there is no solution... believe me if this sounds familiar..Let it go.

Can you live without the other person in your life or does it feel like you cant breathe the same when they aren't around? does teh thought of losing them bring a tear to your eyes liek it would if it were a close family member?

I just see it like this:

If you're married, do any and everything to make it work, and consider counseling.

If you are engaged, at one point in time you saw yourself with this person FOREVER, what changed it and can you go back to the way things used to be?

If you are dating, and you ask the question you just posed in this thread...Let it go.

i feel drained..

its like any and everything can set her off.

i told her how i felt that i felt she didnt love me anymore, instead of her saying i'm sorry and i'll do better, she flys off the handle like its my fault.

when i'm in the wrong i accept it and do better, her...

she prolongs for days then finally says im wrong, i'm sick of that

[SLOWLYbtngU]

i feel drained..

its like any and everything can set her off.

i told her how i felt that i felt she didnt love me anymore, instead of her saying i'm sorry and i'll do better, she flys off the handle like its my fault.

when i'm in the wrong i accept it and do better, her...

she prolongs for days then finally says im wrong, i'm sick of that

I cant stand when I hear that the woman is the one that is making it so hard. I can almost guarantee that she has been hurt before and doesnt know how to let go of the past. Even though you could be everything that she ever wanted and needed, she was hurt so much before by last guy she thought that about that she just doesnt know how to let down her guard.

I am the SAME way. I meet Mr. Right, Mr. Right^2, and all of his cousins and family members...But Cant allow myself to let my guard down. What happens? The guy quits. Can I blame him? Hell no. I do it to myself.

You need to talk to her and if she avoids this conversation, you can expect to avoid any future convos also. I say back off for a while. Take a break. BOTH of you. See if this is who you want to be with.

[DJ Raijin]

You need to talk to her and if she avoids this conversation, you can expect to avoid any future convos also. I say back off for a while. Take a break. BOTH of you. See if this is who you want to be with.

9 times outta 10, a break means the end. Especially at younger ages (IE below 25).

If you are to the point where you are considering breaking up or you're wondering if you should or if it's worth staying together, break it off now before shit gets too deep to crawl out of.