I'm 29, not married, educated, great job, happy with myself, have no problem with not being married and having kids yet.... it will happen when the time is right.
We're out there, just not that easy to find.
I'm 29, not married, educated, great job, happy with myself, have no problem with not being married and having kids yet.... it will happen when the time is right.
We're out there, just not that easy to find.
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i did highlight the reason that makes your situation okOriginally Posted by JennB
; are you from the south?
As terrible as it sounds word man.Originally Posted by PSINXS
Not at all. Different people want different things cleary. That's why I said *I* don't like southern women not southern women all suck or something.Originally Posted by Ran Kizama
Ya actually I realized last weekend that almost all my guy friends who are single are probably that way for a reason. Except for me of course. lol It's gotta be tough for the single women too. No reason to jump into getting married though.Originally Posted by admin
Are you single? Ya I didn't think so.Originally Posted by JennB
Originally Posted by AWD OWNZ U
No, I'm not.... but I was.
I'm very happily taken by someone who I don't think has any intention to let me go any time soon.
But before that, I was single and before my last relationship I was single for over a year. One guy who I had interest in during that time told me that I was intimidating. Yeah, thanks buddy. Plus, working 70 hours a week in public accounting meant I was out and able to meet new people oooooh... never? A lot of us girls who have chosen to get our own lives to where we want before starting a family are working our asses off and hiding in our offices![]()
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nothing wrong w/ a working woman that is the perfect woman unless you are looking for a throphy wifeOriginally Posted by JennB
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This thread makes me raise a question, because when I look around, all I see are woman who work all the time and are putting their careers up before anything. Every woman I see is working hard and long, to stabilize themselves so that they can be more...independant I suppose. I haven't seen many woman who are actually content with being a housewife or something similar. Not that I have anything wrong with that. If you're a hard working female that's making her place in the world with hard work and determination, then best of luck.
It's just not what I personally am looking for.
I, in contrast to AWD OWNZ U, would love to have a wife who is personally satisfied with staying home and supporting me. I have no problems with the thoughts that a husband goes to work to support his family while the wife takes care of the children and maintains the home.
I mean this in the nicest, non-sexist way possible. I'm not saying that woman are unequal or any bullsh*t like that, because I've been accused of that in the past. So if that's what you're getting out of it, then get off your high-horse.
I can't really say it's the way I've been raised because both of my parents work and support me. Maybe, it's that which warps my view because I've seen my mother hurt, tired, stressed, and sick due to work so she could help support me and my father. I do not wish this upon my future wife. I want to carry the burden of working and providing so that she doesn't have to. Raising children and maintaining a home is more than enough work for anybody IMO.
Like I said, maybe it's just the way my mind works. I guess I still see things in a gender-role point of view. I don't mean it to be degrading or sexist, it's just how I see things.
Sh*t...I think I'll put this in my blog.
FINE the ONE woman who posts is the counter example. I stand by my original rant for 90% of the women here though. I can only imagine how much worse it is when you leave Atlanta. Perhaps I should just wander through downtown around lunch time and ask all the girls if they are single.Originally Posted by JennB
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I'm down, let's do it.Originally Posted by AWD OWNZ U
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