nothing wrong w/ a working woman that is the perfect woman unless you are looking for a throphy wifeOriginally Posted by JennB
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nothing wrong w/ a working woman that is the perfect woman unless you are looking for a throphy wifeOriginally Posted by JennB
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This thread makes me raise a question, because when I look around, all I see are woman who work all the time and are putting their careers up before anything. Every woman I see is working hard and long, to stabilize themselves so that they can be more...independant I suppose. I haven't seen many woman who are actually content with being a housewife or something similar. Not that I have anything wrong with that. If you're a hard working female that's making her place in the world with hard work and determination, then best of luck.
It's just not what I personally am looking for.
I, in contrast to AWD OWNZ U, would love to have a wife who is personally satisfied with staying home and supporting me. I have no problems with the thoughts that a husband goes to work to support his family while the wife takes care of the children and maintains the home.
I mean this in the nicest, non-sexist way possible. I'm not saying that woman are unequal or any bullsh*t like that, because I've been accused of that in the past. So if that's what you're getting out of it, then get off your high-horse.
I can't really say it's the way I've been raised because both of my parents work and support me. Maybe, it's that which warps my view because I've seen my mother hurt, tired, stressed, and sick due to work so she could help support me and my father. I do not wish this upon my future wife. I want to carry the burden of working and providing so that she doesn't have to. Raising children and maintaining a home is more than enough work for anybody IMO.
Like I said, maybe it's just the way my mind works. I guess I still see things in a gender-role point of view. I don't mean it to be degrading or sexist, it's just how I see things.
Sh*t...I think I'll put this in my blog.