Revenge is something I'm good at talking about, but I'm really a big softy, I wouldn't hurt a fly... I guess I kinda get that from my mom.


As far as child support goes... I don't need his money, no, but my child does. Brandon, like you said, I should take the money and stash it away, but in all honesty, I just don't see any of this helping. I think by making him suffer he would make every attempt to make me suffer in return. He's a deadbeat. He always will be. He will never amount to anything or anyone. I would be better off just dropping it now and moving on with my life.

Thanks everyone for the advice, I do appreciate it, and I have to admit, I feel a ton better now that I let it out. Paul, if you don't mind, could you delete this thread, please?