Quote Originally Posted by SLOWLYbtngU
... So if the girl is the one that just wants sex the guy gets leery??? :confused:
No. We men are just not ready for what we think we want. If we are JUST fuck-buddies, the perfect woman will fuck and suck me off, lick me clean, and then be dressed and out of the door before we fall asleep. That's what we THINK we want. I prayed for YEARS for this... fell asleep hundreds of times w/ some broad snuggling up and spooming me all night thinking to myself "PLEASE go away, your purpose has been fulfilled... JUST LEAVE!!!"

But lo and behold, the 1st time this happened it FUCKED ME UP!! I popped, she popped twice... kissed me on the 4head... said "thank you" and was out my front door before I could say "you're welcome". While I had prayed for this type of woman for YEARS, it fucked me up when I got her. While I SHOULD have been counting sheep and thanking the Cum Gods for sending my Queen, I was sitting indian style in the middle of my damn bed naked w/ ankle sox on wondering "what the hell did I do wrong?" FUCKED ME UP FOR DAYS! I immediately began to "chase" her... and believe me, I was KING PIMP back then... I chased NO ONE! She shook me b/c she changed the rules from what I was used to. **this was also the only woman I NEVER cheated on, but that's a diff story that I will tell later. I didn't figure out WHY I never cheated on her until later**

While this "I can careless, you're just a dick that I wanna fuck" attitude will work for the average guy, and will work to get YOU the leverage you need in a fuck-buddy relationship, some1 like ME/ALEX will see it coming from a mile away. I have things to counter it. So "know your target" before you try to go and use this shit, if he is like me you will end up IN LOVE and it will backfire BIGTIME.