Cut buddies???

**SLOWLYbtngU** · 07-07-2006, 09:55 PM

mmmm...I fell once...I pray it wont happen again...So yeah waht about when the guy is the one chasing?? As a female waht can I do to avoid the psycho guys that wont let go?

**BABY J** · 07-07-2006, 10:09 PM

Originally Posted by SLOWLYbtngU

mmmm...I fell once...I pray it wont happen again...So yeah waht about when the guy is the one chasing?? As a female waht can I do to avoid the psycho guys that wont let go?

Chances are, he is NOT psycho. You have to understand the psychy of a man... most women do not. The WORST thing that women can do when dealing w/ men is usually the FIRST thing that they do... and that's TALK TO ONE OF THEIR GIRLFRIENDS!!

A woman needs a MAN in her arsenal in order to get the edge over the men in her life, But not ANY man, one that has NO interest in her at all in any type of way. If he likes you in ANY way, he will give you advice dilluted w/ Haterade.

99.9% of the time, if a man has not "gotten it" it's b/c YOU (as a woman) have not laid it out there. You have to be FIRM, rude even, and you can NOT falter on this. SAY WHAT YOU MEAN, and MEAN WHAT YOU SAY!!

THIS is a typical scenario:

**riiiiiiinnnng**
Girl 1: who's that?
Girl 2: Oh nobody... not gonna answer it, it's Charles.
Girl 1: LOL
Gilr 2: He'll get the point eventually, I NEVER answer when he calls.

WRONG ANSWER!!!!

1st of all, he will NOT get the point. 2ndly, he shouldn't HAVE to "get" it. YOU should GIVE it to him. Why should he have to GET the point when we are all adults and you can TELL him EXACTLY what he needs to know?

1. LOVE IS A GIVE and TAKE situation ONLY!!!

2. When the good outweighs the bad --IT'S OVER (For us smart people-- if you see that the person cannot give to you what you need--it might be over b4 it starts)

3. NEVER NEVER NEVER NEVER NEVER GO BACK!!! (DID I say NEVER NEVER EVER)-- 1st of all --that's what I call HUSTLIN backwards... the object is to get ahead --not behind... 2nd it just tells the person abusing your love you don't really have any other options and they gives them a license to REALLY go CRAZY...

(SAY WHAT YOU MEAN AND MEAN WHAT YOU SAY)--if your leaving LEAVE FOR GOOD!!!)

DAMN FELLAS HELP ME OUT HERE!!! PITCH IN ANYTIME!!! Where's AMORAH when I need him?

**SLOWLYbtngU** · 07-07-2006, 10:28 PM

Originally Posted by BABY J

Chances are, he is NOT psycho. You have to understand the psychy of a man... most women do not. The WORST thing that women can do when dealing w/ men is usually the FIRST thing that they do... and that's TALK TO ONE OF THEIR GIRLFRIENDS!!

A woman needs a MAN in her arsenal in order to get the edge over the men in her life, But not ANY man, one that has NO interest in her at all in any type of way. If he likes you in ANY way, he will give you advice dilluted w/ Haterade.

99.9% of the time, if a man has not "gotten it" it's b/c YOU (as a woman) have not laid it out there. You have to be FIRM, rude even, and you can NOT falter on this. SAY WHAT YOU MEAN, and MEAN WHAT YOU SAY!!

THIS is a typical scenario:

**riiiiiiinnnng**
Girl 1: who's that?
Girl 2: Oh nobody... not gonna answer it, it's Charles.
Girl 1: LOL
Gilr 2: He'll get the point eventually, I NEVER answer when he calls.

WRONG ANSWER!!!!

1st of all, he will NOT get the point. 2ndly, he shouldn't HAVE to "get" it. YOU should GIVE it to him. Why should he have to GET the point when we are all adults and you can TELL him EXACTLY what he needs to know?

1. LOVE IS A GIVE and TAKE situation ONLY!!!

2. When the good outweighs the bad --IT'S OVER (For us smart people-- if you see that the person cannot give to you what you need--it might be over b4 it starts)

3. NEVER NEVER NEVER NEVER NEVER GO BACK!!! (DID I say NEVER NEVER EVER)-- 1st of all --that's what I call HUSTLIN backwards... the object is to get ahead --not behind... 2nd it just tells the person abusing your love you don't really have any other options and they gives them a license to REALLY go CRAZY...

(SAY WHAT YOU MEAN AND MEAN WHAT YOU SAY)--if your leaving LEAVE FOR GOOD!!!)

DAMN FELLAS HELP ME OUT HERE!!! PITCH IN ANYTIME!!! Where's AMORAH when I need him?

Damn see but I hate the confrontation...See and when I am bitchy I feel like well a BITCH but like a super duper uber bitch...

I was firm once and the guy grabbed me by the neck..I was fucking scared shitless...WTF am I supposed to do then??? Should it be face to face or will talking over the phone work?

Will the guy quit???? Honestly?

So if I want nothing but sex and homeboy is psycho and I back off, but hten decide that the cock was good and go back I can't??? WTF??? THAT SUX!!!!!

**ahmonrah** · 07-08-2006, 08:07 AM

Originally Posted by BABY J

DAMN FELLAS HELP ME OUT HERE!!! PITCH IN ANYTIME!!! Where's AMORAH when I need him?

here i am!!! a little late but here, i was .....well....IT'S MY B-DAY !!! JUST HIT 28YRS OLD. AND AFtER A LONG NITE I'M AWAKE AGAIN. lemme see here~scanning through the pages~

bee jizzle has some very valid points and upon further review, i agree with most of what he says.

1) hints and clues dont work with men, the direct approach is key to our understanding.
2) very few women can separate sex/emotion.
3) i need to wake up, get some coffee and rub one off before i can give wisdom on this subject.

**BTLFED** · 07-07-2006, 10:11 PM

I could pitch in, but I would be saying the exact same shit. Then someone would post the word "repost" and then it would go way off track.

**xaznstylegrlx** · 07-07-2006, 10:12 PM

never had a true cut buddy, but i have gotten back with people because of sex?

**BABY J** · 07-07-2006, 10:38 PM

This isn't high school. Backtracking is for teenagers. BE SURE about what you say. You can be SURE and be nice at the same time. No need to be a bitch unless you are SURE that you have gotten the point across MULTIPLE times the nice & firm way. Getting your point across is not just talking... it is FINISHING the conversation by asking him "Do you unnderstand me?"

Speaking of nice and firm... what choo doin? LOL

**i4_garage** · 07-07-2006, 10:40 PM

me and my girl started like that also....i call it cuddy buddy.....or friend wit benefits...lolz

**BTLFED** · 07-07-2006, 10:51 PM

boo :hiss:

**SLOWLYbtngU** · 07-08-2006, 08:20 AM

Well then plz be my guest...

~waits~

**never_finished** · 07-08-2006, 08:31 AM

hmmm...ive had them in the past...sometimes its ok, sometimes its a train wreck.

i wouldnt mind having a new one

how you dooooooin

**SLOWLYbtngU** · 07-08-2006, 08:43 AM

Originally Posted by never_finished

hmmm...ive had them in the past...sometimes its ok, sometimes its a train wreck.

i wouldnt mind having a new one

how you dooooooin

Hahaha, doing good. Unfortunately I have my cut buddy and we're cool..Thank you though..

**never_finished** · 07-08-2006, 08:44 AM

Originally Posted by SLOWLYbtngU

Hahaha, doing good. Unfortunately I have my cut buddy and we're cool..Thank you though..

lol my statement was open...i wasnt being specific

buuuuuut thats the point of cut buddies, they are like potato chips...you cant have just one

**SLOWLYbtngU** · 07-08-2006, 08:45 AM

Hmm...What flavor would u be?

**never_finished** · 07-08-2006, 08:52 AM

a good flavor

**SLOWLYbtngU** · 07-08-2006, 09:12 AM

lol at ur pm +1 for U!

**The Golden Child** · 07-08-2006, 09:36 AM

hmmm ..

**SLOWLYbtngU** · 07-08-2006, 09:38 AM

Originally Posted by nolimitsteveo

hmmm ..

lol...U not jealous right???

**The Golden Child** · 07-08-2006, 09:45 AM

Originally Posted by SLOWLYbtngU

lol...U not jealous right???

were not chatting buddys no more ..

**SLOWLYbtngU** · 07-08-2006, 09:46 AM

Originally Posted by nolimitsteveo

were not chatting buddys no more ..

But ur my across town roommate...Dammit man...Who am I gonna type to now??

**The Golden Child** · 07-08-2006, 10:10 AM

Originally Posted by SLOWLYbtngU

But ur my across town roommate...Dammit man...Who am I gonna type to now??

i just play .. =P

im gunna make you stay up all night chatting with me while watching VH1 ..

**Scrilla** · 07-08-2006, 09:41 AM

hmm...

**SLOWLYbtngU** · 07-08-2006, 09:45 AM

Originally Posted by Scrilla

hmm...

yep yep...I know. I know...

**Scrilla** · 07-08-2006, 09:48 AM

Originally Posted by SLOWLYbtngU

yep yep...I know. I know...

ftw!

**SLOWLYbtngU** · 07-08-2006, 10:08 AM

Originally Posted by Scrilla

ftw!

**The Golden Child** · 07-08-2006, 10:09 AM

ok so i guess uhmmm well ill post about my recent play buddy ..

she asked if she can stay at my place cause she wanted to be " BAD " ..
i kind of felt werid about the situation cause we dont really know eachother ..
but as a nice guy i am i told her sure you can crash at my place ..
usually when people run away they bring some clothes and stuff ..
well she brought clothes her daym 4 season wardrobe ..

1st night it was cool just chilled at my crib and went to sleep ..
next thing you know shes laying in my bed and starts to rub up on me ..
so in my head im like what a hoe but ill let her jerk me off and ill play with her ..
we did not have sex though cause i was tired ..
hell i was even tired when i was fingering her buy anyway ..
its 6 in the morning now and i needed to get my nut on so im like wanna go further ..
then she goes what do you mean like head and im like yea and shes like i dont do that ..
i look at her like hmmm ok i jerked off on her stomach and kinda splashed her face ..
then i cleaned up and kicked her off my bed ..
went to sleep at 7 in the morning and i had to wake up at 8:30 ..

2nd night same thing happened except i really wanted to fuck this time ..
im blunt about things so im like you wanna fuck or what ?
then shes like do you have a condom and im like nah ..
so im like whens the last time you had sex and she goes not to long ago ..
so im like hmmm what a hoe and i get up wash up and head to bed ..
she was feeling kind of dry also down there ..
plus my friend from ny came down to chill also ..
later he told me he fucked her and then i realized why she was feeling dry ..
good thing i didnt have sex with her though ..
she was not good looking and she did creep me out ..
im sure if i just did it she wouldnt have stopped me from doing it ..

3rd day saturday had my day planned out to chill wit my home boyz ..
watch a movie and den head to the bar ..
well they came late so we saw a late movie at regals ..
while im waiting for them she comes back from chilling all drunk ..
i can smell the alcohol and im like shit she better not be doing some weird shit ..
so i step out and talking on the phone with who ever picks up there phone ..
so i spent 2 hours outside till my friends come pick me up at 11:30 ..
meanwhile while waiting for them she keeps coming out asking who im talking to and all dah stuff ..
and im getting annoyed by this so im like can you just stay inside im talking to someone ..
then my friend calls to see when the movie starts ..
i go to my comp and she was chatting and i see a im box talking about me ..

" i dont think he likes me and i dont really like him " is what i saw ..

so im sitting there trying to get times for the movie ..
then she comes and sits next to me and rubbing on me ..
i was getting mad about this and i get up quick and shiver in front of her ..
walk outside talking to my boi on the phone about what just happened ..
then she comes outside and asks if she can come also and im like nah you cant ..
i told my boi to hurry up or imma kill da bitch and dump her in the river ..
30 mins later its now 11:30 and hes here finally i run back in and grab a shirt and leave ..
she trys to give me a hug and i dodge it and im like sorry i have to go ..
i knew she felt hurt by this but daym she was creeping me out ..

sunday morning comes i tell her to pack her shit and be out cause i lied by telling her that i was seeing someone and she doesnt like the idea of her " the girl " living with me ..
and i told her id help her pack her car with her stuff ..
5 minutes later i loaded up her car in 5 minutes ..
thats how fast i wanted her out ..

so i talked to her yesterday on aim and she told me it was messed up what i did ..
and im like what did i do and she goes you kicked me out ..
and im like so your point i dont need you living with me when im seeing a girl ..
* still sticking with my story of a girl who doesnt exist *

so that is all ..
i do feel glad that shes out cause she was really freaking me out ..

**SLOWLYbtngU** · 07-08-2006, 10:28 AM

Originally Posted by nolimitsteveo

ok so i guess uhmmm well ill post about my recent play buddy ..

she asked if she can stay at my place cause she wanted to be " BAD " ..
i kind of felt werid about the situation cause we dont really know eachother ..
but as a nice guy i am i told her sure you can crash at my place ..
usually when people run away they bring some clothes and stuff ..
well she brought clothes her daym 4 season wardrobe ..

1st night it was cool just chilled at my crib and went to sleep ..
next thing you know shes laying in my bed and starts to rub up on me ..
so in my head im like what a hoe but ill let her jerk me off and ill play with her ..
we did not have sex though cause i was tired ..
hell i was even tired when i was fingering her buy anyway ..
its 6 in the morning now and i needed to get my nut on so im like wanna go further ..
then she goes what do you mean like head and im like yea and shes like i dont do that ..
i look at her like hmmm ok i jerked off on her stomach and kinda splashed her face ..
then i cleaned up and kicked her off my bed ..
went to sleep at 7 in the morning and i had to wake up at 8:30 ..

2nd night same thing happened except i really wanted to fuck this time ..
im blunt about things so im like you wanna fuck or what ?
then shes like do you have a condom and im like nah ..
so im like whens the last time you had sex and she goes not to long ago ..
so im like hmmm what a hoe and i get up wash up and head to bed ..
she was feeling kind of dry also down there ..
plus my friend from ny came down to chill also ..
later he told me he fucked her and then i realized why she was feeling dry ..
good thing i didnt have sex with her though ..
she was not good looking and she did creep me out ..
im sure if i just did it she wouldnt have stopped me from doing it ..

3rd day saturday had my day planned out to chill wit my home boyz ..
watch a movie and den head to the bar ..
well they came late so we saw a late movie at regals ..
while im waiting for them she comes back from chilling all drunk ..
i can smell the alcohol and im like shit she better not be doing some weird shit ..
so i step out and talking on the phone with who ever picks up there phone ..
so i spent 2 hours outside till my friends come pick me up at 11:30 ..
meanwhile while waiting for them she keeps coming out asking who im talking to and all dah stuff ..
and im getting annoyed by this so im like can you just stay inside im talking to someone ..
then my friend calls to see when the movie starts ..
i go to my comp and she was chatting and i see a im box talking about me ..

" i dont think he likes me and i dont really like him " is what i saw ..

so im sitting there trying to get times for the movie ..
then she comes and sits next to me and rubbing on me ..
i was getting mad about this and i get up quick and shiver in front of her ..
walk outside talking to my boi on the phone about what just happened ..
then she comes outside and asks if she can come also and im like nah you cant ..
i told my boi to hurry up or imma kill da bitch and dump her in the river ..
30 mins later its now 11:30 and hes here finally i run back in and grab a shirt and leave ..
she trys to give me a hug and i dodge it and im like sorry i have to go ..
i knew she felt hurt by this but daym she was creeping me out ..

sunday morning comes i tell her to pack her shit and be out cause i lied by telling her that i was seeing someone and she doesnt like the idea of her " the girl " living with me ..
and i told her id help her pack her car with her stuff ..
5 minutes later i loaded up her car in 5 minutes ..
thats how fast i wanted her out ..

so i talked to her yesterday on aim and she told me it was messed up what i did ..
and im like what did i do and she goes you kicked me out ..
and im like so your point i dont need you living with me when im seeing a girl ..
* still sticking with my story of a girl who doesnt exist *

so that is all ..
i do feel glad that shes out cause she was really freaking me out ..

God damn....Shyt....Dog...That is nasty...lol..U should of told her I am the girl....lol..She dont want none...

**The Golden Child** · 07-08-2006, 10:33 AM

Originally Posted by SLOWLYbtngU

God damn....Shyt....Dog...That is nasty...lol..U should of told her I am the girl....lol..She dont want none...

my friend from NC was coming down and i told her to pretend to be my GF ..
well i kicked the girl out before she came and my friend got upset ..
she told me she was practicing while she was coming down .. LIRL !!!

**Scrilla** · 07-08-2006, 10:36 AM

Originally Posted by nolimitsteveo

my friend from NC was coming down and i told her to pretend to be my GF ..
well i kicked the girl out before she came and my friend got upset ..
she told me she was practicing while she was coming down .. LIRL !!!

she can continue pretending...:idb: :idb: :idb: :idb:

**The Golden Child** · 07-08-2006, 10:40 AM

Originally Posted by Scrilla

she can continue pretending...:idb: :idb: :idb: :idb:

nah it aint like that she a friend nothing more ..

**SLOWLYbtngU** · 07-08-2006, 10:38 AM

Originally Posted by nolimitsteveo

my friend from NC was coming down and i told her to pretend to be my GF ..
well i kicked the girl out before she came and my friend got upset ..
she told me she was practicing while she was coming down .. LIRL !!!

aww man..U no funn..

**The Golden Child** · 07-08-2006, 10:41 AM

Originally Posted by SLOWLYbtngU

aww man..U no funn..

* e hug * cheer up ..

**Scrilla** · 07-08-2006, 10:11 AM

so...

**The Golden Child** · 07-08-2006, 10:12 AM

Originally Posted by Scrilla

so...

yea !!! so0o0o .. hmmmm ..

wah u up 2 ?

**Scrilla** · 07-08-2006, 10:15 AM

Originally Posted by nolimitsteveo

yea !!! so0o0o .. hmmmm ..

wah u up 2 ?

nawt a damn thang...work blows mang... its slow as shyt...

just reading up on J's post...

**The Golden Child** · 07-08-2006, 10:22 AM

Originally Posted by Scrilla

nawt a damn thang...work blows mang... its slow as shyt...

just reading up on J's post...

tro0o same here its slow right now ..

**Scrilla** · 07-08-2006, 10:26 AM

Originally Posted by nolimitsteveo

tro0o same here its slow right now ..

i just got here... i think im goin on a 3 hour lunch break again.... then ima come back...to close and then get the hair dun did..

**Scrilla** · 07-08-2006, 10:30 AM

hmm...

**SLOWLYbtngU** · 07-08-2006, 10:32 AM

Originally Posted by Scrilla

hmm...

Man that shit was hilarious...Hot Fiya!!!

**The Golden Child** · 07-08-2006, 10:51 AM

wassa " J " ..

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