Cut buddies???

[BABY J]

mmmm...I fell once...I pray it wont happen again...So yeah waht about when the guy is the one chasing?? As a female waht can I do to avoid the psycho guys that wont let go?

Chances are, he is NOT psycho. You have to understand the psychy of a man... most women do not. The WORST thing that women can do when dealing w/ men is usually the FIRST thing that they do... and that's TALK TO ONE OF THEIR GIRLFRIENDS!!

A woman needs a MAN in her arsenal in order to get the edge over the men in her life, But not ANY man, one that has NO interest in her at all in any type of way. If he likes you in ANY way, he will give you advice dilluted w/ Haterade.

99.9% of the time, if a man has not "gotten it" it's b/c YOU (as a woman) have not laid it out there. You have to be FIRM, rude even, and you can NOT falter on this. SAY WHAT YOU MEAN, and MEAN WHAT YOU SAY!!

THIS is a typical scenario:

**riiiiiiinnnng**
Girl 1: who's that?
Girl 2: Oh nobody... not gonna answer it, it's Charles.
Girl 1: LOL
Gilr 2: He'll get the point eventually, I NEVER answer when he calls.

WRONG ANSWER!!!!

1st of all, he will NOT get the point. 2ndly, he shouldn't HAVE to "get" it. YOU should GIVE it to him. Why should he have to GET the point when we are all adults and you can TELL him EXACTLY what he needs to know?

1. LOVE IS A GIVE and TAKE situation ONLY!!!

2. When the good outweighs the bad --IT'S OVER (For us smart people-- if you see that the person cannot give to you what you need--it might be over b4 it starts)

3. NEVER NEVER NEVER NEVER NEVER GO BACK!!! (DID I say NEVER NEVER EVER)-- 1st of all --that's what I call HUSTLIN backwards... the object is to get ahead --not behind... 2nd it just tells the person abusing your love you don't really have any other options and they gives them a license to REALLY go CRAZY...

(SAY WHAT YOU MEAN AND MEAN WHAT YOU SAY)--if your leaving LEAVE FOR GOOD!!!)


DAMN FELLAS HELP ME OUT HERE!!! PITCH IN ANYTIME!!! Where's AMORAH when I need him?

[SLOWLYbtngU]

Chances are, he is NOT psycho. You have to understand the psychy of a man... most women do not. The WORST thing that women can do when dealing w/ men is usually the FIRST thing that they do... and that's TALK TO ONE OF THEIR GIRLFRIENDS!!

A woman needs a MAN in her arsenal in order to get the edge over the men in her life, But not ANY man, one that has NO interest in her at all in any type of way. If he likes you in ANY way, he will give you advice dilluted w/ Haterade.

99.9% of the time, if a man has not "gotten it" it's b/c YOU (as a woman) have not laid it out there. You have to be FIRM, rude even, and you can NOT falter on this. SAY WHAT YOU MEAN, and MEAN WHAT YOU SAY!!

THIS is a typical scenario:

**riiiiiiinnnng**
Girl 1: who's that?
Girl 2: Oh nobody... not gonna answer it, it's Charles.
Girl 1: LOL
Gilr 2: He'll get the point eventually, I NEVER answer when he calls.

WRONG ANSWER!!!!

1st of all, he will NOT get the point. 2ndly, he shouldn't HAVE to "get" it. YOU should GIVE it to him. Why should he have to GET the point when we are all adults and you can TELL him EXACTLY what he needs to know?

1. LOVE IS A GIVE and TAKE situation ONLY!!!

2. When the good outweighs the bad --IT'S OVER (For us smart people-- if you see that the person cannot give to you what you need--it might be over b4 it starts)

3. NEVER NEVER NEVER NEVER NEVER GO BACK!!! (DID I say NEVER NEVER EVER)-- 1st of all --that's what I call HUSTLIN backwards... the object is to get ahead --not behind... 2nd it just tells the person abusing your love you don't really have any other options and they gives them a license to REALLY go CRAZY...

(SAY WHAT YOU MEAN AND MEAN WHAT YOU SAY)--if your leaving LEAVE FOR GOOD!!!)


DAMN FELLAS HELP ME OUT HERE!!! PITCH IN ANYTIME!!! Where's AMORAH when I need him?

Damn see but I hate the confrontation...See and when I am bitchy I feel like well a BITCH but like a super duper uber bitch...

I was firm once and the guy grabbed me by the neck..I was fucking scared shitless...WTF am I supposed to do then??? Should it be face to face or will talking over the phone work?

Will the guy quit???? Honestly?

So if I want nothing but sex and homeboy is psycho and I back off, but hten decide that the cock was good and go back I can't??? WTF??? THAT SUX!!!!!

[ahmonrah]

DAMN FELLAS HELP ME OUT HERE!!! PITCH IN ANYTIME!!! Where's AMORAH when I need him?

here i am!!! a little late but here, i was .....well....IT'S MY B-DAY !!! JUST HIT 28YRS OLD. AND AFtER A LONG NITE I'M AWAKE AGAIN. lemme see here~scanning through the pages~

bee jizzle has some very valid points and upon further review, i agree with most of what he says.

1) hints and clues dont work with men, the direct approach is key to our understanding.
2) very few women can separate sex/emotion.
3) i need to wake up, get some coffee and rub one off before i can give wisdom on this subject.