Not everyone's lifestyle fits your mold. Monogamy is obviously so strong in todays world right? thats why you never hear anything about divorce. Note: Sarcasm.
Besides, though your flame attempt was colorful, this wasnt an attempt to self reflect. It's a pretty common topic on TV now about women being "free spirits" and breaking the double standard that men have about cheating and such. That's what triggered my interest in the topic.
So you are saying its ok for a female to ask the same question about "Is it ok by my boyfriend to take cawk in his ass" ?