I feel I need to get this out...

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There is no need for child support, I feel no need to do whatever I can to make her life horrible,

Man, for real, dude, you really need to pursue that child support. As much as you THINK you "got this," you need to think about the child before yourself. That child doesn't "got this." I just can't believe that you think you don't need the extra money. You barely make any money so you have to live at the parent's house. Why are you thinking about messing up the Mother's life with asking for child support anyway? You should be thinking about it benefiting your baby. You're going to need it. Contrary to your belief, you don't know shit, man.

Wow Damn i just read the whole fukn tread shitz crazy. Fuck Adoption 4 pussies dont let ur baby suffer that shit. its not the end of the world.c'mon son get it together

You're an idiot, aren't you?

He has custody and he's willing to try.


Be mature and encourage him. It's one thing to make him aware of the adoption route, but it's another thing to discourage him. I'm older than him by very little and I don't know if I could do it. He sounds like he really wants to try and he really loves his daughter... get off his nuts.

And he gets big props for his attempts. No doubt about that.

He needs good words of encouragement, true enough. Words that will help keep his mind positive.........

But his thought processes in this are completely going to tear that baby up. I'm not trying to encourage or discourage him from anything. I'm trying to let him know what real life with a child is really like....and not what he thinks it's like.

His comments about "doing this too long" and "I got this" really showed his lack of understanding and knowledge as to how being a parent really will be. So I'm trying to knock it home on him that he is just looking at the tip of the iceberg when it comes to rearing a child. Later, QD.