All I can day is good luck man. And think for the child's best interest with every decision you make. I'd have no idea what to do in your shoes but I respect that you have to go through it. I don't want to give any advice because I don't know enough about these things, and I also don't want to offend anyone or say something that you don't agree with but make sure your little girl gets the best life anyone can give her. Weather or weather not it be you.