Originally Posted by Paul
In a sense, Paul is correct. If there is any doubt in your mind whether or not you can do this, you should consider it. If you don't seriously and honestly think you can give this child a good, decent life (morally and healthy), there are many qualified, financially sound couples that can provide exactly what the child needs. Couples that can't have babies on their own for whatever medical reasons they have live for the day that someone calls and gives them info on a chance at being parents.
This isn't to say to do it, but to give the child a chance. If you KNOW you can do it and KNOW that you have ample help immediately if you can't at that moment, then you should think about it.
Good luck in your decision. I also hope you can do it as every child needs their biological parents and I would hate to see a child not being with his parents. But I would rather a child be with parents that can give him/her stability than not. Later, QD.
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