Coming from a girls perspective I totally get where QD, Mike, and baby j are coming from to an extent. I have told my current boyfriend I love him and I do.. we have been good friends for over 8 years and yes I plan on marrying him. The two of us talk constantly throughout the day on text or online because we are in different states.. but when we are together.. Its ok if I go out with the girls and him with the guy and I dont hear from him. I know he loves me and vice versa..