Originally Posted by
FAM0U5
After reading these posts, I draw a conclusion.. that Im hung over and I shouldn't ran the mile after drinking and making myself throw-up and etc last night.
With that statement alone I see that how I manage my life.. I struggled these passed years with a relationship, going beyond means and limits... And this girl well, was my first for pretty much everything so things are abit more difficult in certain aspects [that I love her? of course, but not in that way.. ]. But to understand my first post or where this topic came from is to know my life story. I know to some of you might say, "either way you put it if the shoe doesn't fit IT doesn't fit."
Well, in the hispanic culture we live, atleast I was rised upon on morals and direct guidelines. Such as no sex till marriage, once married can't really divorce unless it's absloutly helpless, and etc. These are some of the foundations of my "life's physolopy". With this is mind, you are thinking "what does any of this can relate to this topic?" Well, some of it is pretty much striaght foward... but these are the charateratics of a "nice" person whether you be a girl or boy. [ hopefully someone on IA can relate or give a better understanding to this]
so bottom line is, being in this postion of being told "it's me or them?" or etc.. is total BS.
Standing your ground can be mislead and view differently, to some it's actions and others it's words. Knowing when to agure is where the fine print is, there is no telling when to do it, nor can it be said it's just known to the person in postion. [I dont expect any of you to understand this, just one indiviual.] So being quite or saying nothing at all helps in avoiding problems .. It may have seem to be a dick-ish move but it was a way to avoid conflict or confrontation. Because in the heat of the moment tention rises dramacticly and things could be said to a degree and it's hell's loose.
This is not my full 2 cents..
lol
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