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  1. 10-22-2009, 01:27 PM #1
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    After reading these posts, I draw a conclusion.. that Im hung over and I shouldn't ran the mile after drinking and making myself throw-up and etc last night.


    With that statement alone I see that how I manage my life.. I struggled these passed years with a relationship, going beyond means and limits... And this girl well, was my first for pretty much everything so things are abit more difficult in certain aspects [that I love her? of course, but not in that way.. ]. But to understand my first post or where this topic came from is to know my life story. I know to some of you might say, "either way you put it if the shoe doesn't fit IT doesn't fit."

    Well, in the hispanic culture we live, atleast I was rised upon on morals and direct guidelines. Such as no sex till marriage, once married can't really divorce unless it's absloutly helpless, and etc. These are some of the foundations of my "life's physolopy". With this is mind, you are thinking "what does any of this can relate to this topic?" Well, some of it is pretty much striaght foward... but these are the charateratics of a "nice" person whether you be a girl or boy. [ hopefully someone on IA can relate or give a better understanding to this]

    so bottom line is, being in this postion of being told "it's me or them?" or etc.. is total BS.


    Standing your ground can be mislead and view differently, to some it's actions and others it's words. Knowing when to agure is where the fine print is, there is no telling when to do it, nor can it be said it's just known to the person in postion. [I dont expect any of you to understand this, just one indiviual.] So being quite or saying nothing at all helps in avoiding problems .. It may have seem to be a dick-ish move but it was a way to avoid conflict or confrontation. Because in the heat of the moment tention rises dramacticly and things could be said to a degree and it's hell's loose.

    This is not my full 2 cents..

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    Edit: thank you.
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    Quote Originally Posted by FAM0U5 View Post
    Please word it differently, we are having a public discussion if you would like a more personal feedback I would be more than happy to respond in PM.
    It doesn't help that you quoted it, but I refrain from anything. I have nothing else to say about this topic
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    Quote Originally Posted by FAM0U5 View Post
    After reading these posts, I draw a conclusion.. that Im hung over and I shouldn't ran the mile after drinking and making myself throw-up and etc last night.


    With that statement alone I see that how I manage my life.. I struggled these passed years with a relationship, going beyond means and limits... And this girl well, was my first for pretty much everything so things are abit more difficult in certain aspects [that I love her? of course, but not in that way.. ]. But to understand my first post or where this topic came from is to know my life story. I know to some of you might say, "either way you put it if the shoe doesn't fit IT doesn't fit."

    Well, in the hispanic culture we live, atleast I was rised upon on morals and direct guidelines. Such as no sex till marriage, once married can't really divorce unless it's absloutly helpless, and etc. These are some of the foundations of my "life's physolopy". With this is mind, you are thinking "what does any of this can relate to this topic?" Well, some of it is pretty much striaght foward... but these are the charateratics of a "nice" person whether you be a girl or boy. [ hopefully someone on IA can relate or give a better understanding to this]

    so bottom line is, being in this postion of being told "it's me or them?" or etc.. is total BS.


    Standing your ground can be mislead and view differently, to some it's actions and others it's words. Knowing when to agure is where the fine print is, there is no telling when to do it, nor can it be said it's just known to the person in postion. [I dont expect any of you to understand this, just one indiviual.] So being quite or saying nothing at all helps in avoiding problems .. It may have seem to be a dick-ish move but it was a way to avoid conflict or confrontation. Because in the heat of the moment tention rises dramacticly and things could be said to a degree and it's hell's loose.

    This is not my full 2 cents..
    Take it to PMs!!!! lol

    Mr. Bautista.....What do YOU want? Think about it......What..........do...........YOOOOOOOOOOOOOO OOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOU....Want?
    If what you are doing is making you unhappy......DON'T DO IT...... She will either go with you. Or she will move on. Nothing is set in stone until you are married. And even that's sketchy these days. Life is WAAAAY too short to not be happy. Be happy every chance you get, and those that test your happiness or don't treat you the way you deserve to be treated can kick rocks. She will go on to live a good life with or without you and you will too. You are an awesome person, if she doesn't know that, she will realize it one day. Hopefully for her, you will still want her lol. Until she realizes what she has.....instead of rocks, she can kick glass.

    Just sounds like a bunch of drama *gag*
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    Quote Originally Posted by LizBiz View Post
    Take it to PMs!!!! lol

    Mr. Bautista.....What do YOU want? Think about it......What..........do...........YOOOOOOOOOOOOOO OOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOU....Want?
    If what you are doing is making you unhappy......DON'T DO IT...... She will either go with you. Or she will move on. Nothing is set in stone until you are married. And even that's sketchy these days. Life is WAAAAY too short to not be happy. Be happy every chance you get, and those that test your happiness or don't treat you the way you deserve to be treated can kick rocks. She will go on to live a good life with or without you and you will too.

    Just sounds like a bunch of drama *gag*
    Times fucking 2!
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    Quote Originally Posted by LizBiz View Post
    Take it to PMs!!!! lol

    Mr. Bautista.....What do YOU want? Think about it......What..........do...........YOOOOOOOOOOOOOO OOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOU....Want?
    If what you are doing is making you unhappy......DON'T DO IT...... She will either go with you. Or she will move on. Nothing is set in stone until you are married. And even that's sketchy these days. Life is WAAAAY too short to not be happy. Be happy every chance you get, and those that test your happiness or don't treat you the way you deserve to be treated can kick rocks. She will go on to live a good life with or without you and you will too. You are an awesome person, if she doesn't know that, she will realize it one day. Hopefully for her, you will still want her lol. Until she realizes what she has.....instead of rocks, she can kick glass.

    Just sounds like a bunch of drama *gag*
    please dont get off topic... if you like to have a convo with me personally send a pm.

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    Quote Originally Posted by FAM0U5 View Post
    please dont get off topic... if you like to have a convo with me personally send a pm.
    Why did you post it in a thread then? I said all I had to say lol. I have no clue what you were talking about, just trying to help. GLWS
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    Girls run over the nice guys. Women appreciate the nice guys.

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    Quote Originally Posted by One_Bad_SHO View Post
    Girls run over the nice guys. Women appreciate the nice guys.

    I love bbq beef hotpockets.

    I see what you did there.....

    BBQ beef ones are good as hail, but the aftermath is not so pretty. Especially when you are on a highway with very limited exits
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    Quote Originally Posted by One_Bad_SHO View Post
    Girls run over the nice guys. Women appreciate the nice guys.

    I love bbq beef hotpockets.
    True but I wonder when the nice guys will snapped and just become assholes.. not trying to say that they be on one side or the other but them being in the middle is not simple I would think, after living a certain way it's hard for change like any other things.

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    Quote Originally Posted by FAM0U5 View Post
    True but I wonder when the nice guys will snapped and just become assholes.. not trying to say that they be on one side or the other but them being in the middle is not simple I would think, after living a certain way it's hard for change like any other things.

    No need to change if you're being yourself.
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    Quote Originally Posted by LizBiz View Post
    Why did you post it in a thread then? I said all I had to say lol. I have no clue what you were talking about, just trying to help. GLWS
    I didn't want the tread about me or my situations, just the topic alone you know? Not trying to relate this topic on me.

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