QFT!Originally Posted by LizBiz
QFT!
THAT'S MY JAM!
bitter? nah, smarter yea. i still give women a break, but cant take em seriously at all. not unless im talkin to the 35+ age range. most girls r full of games and i dont wait around for games.Sounds like you have become bitter (the one thing I hope to not happen to me). I think with time and healing you will maybe feel different one day. But I do have to agree with you on our generation does not know what it takes to make a relationship work. The main key is SACRIFICES! Not everyone can get what they want. Sometimes you have to give in order to get. People don't understand that people that have been married for 20+ years or whatever are still together because they had to put up with a lot of shit. Someone may have cheated some where down the road, but the other one was serious about their vows and made the relationship work anyway. People these days are so quick to give up when shit gets hard. Marriage is not always going to be pretty and bright. You are going to have days where everything looks grey and you feel like you can't stand the other person. It all comes down to how willing are you to do whatever it takes to make your relationship work? Are you really committed? That's why I say people should hold off on marriage. Wait until you are in your thirties (by then you should have enough life experience). Make sure you really know the person enough, know their good and bad qualities before you tie the knot. That way you know what you are getting into and how to better handle them and whatever life may throw at you two.
I personally also think as humans as each generation goes by, we get lazier expecting things to be so easy for us (technology is an example of this). When shit doesn't go the way we expect it to, we give up. No one wants to work hard anymore (like our ancestors or parents). Everyone wants the easy way out of everything!
whre i am at right now will not allow for a serious relationship. period. its not worth it. then at the same time u dont know whats going on my end. i'm not out here just doggin females(except for the ones that want that), I will date. but it will not be serious to the point of this my one and only woman forever etc etc. its gonna take a miracle of a girl to bring that about. I jsut wanna kick it with somebody with no hassle. all that who u talkin too, where u been, y u aint call me shit, i am not with it. after 30 will be the only time i will consider marrying, and it wont be something i will be searching for. its jsut gonna have to be by chance.
that was I..it's a very true statement none the less.sadly thats how it works.people typically dont have shit to do with others unless they benefit from it somehow.and if they recieve whatever they please they surely arent going to give it up.
twenty-two
Well, as long as you find a happy medium that works for you, but remember age does not equal maturity. Even 30 year olds can still be immature.
So true!
Yeah...it's people period, cause even the "nice guys" do that shit.
What is a "nice guy" really???? Cause I hear a lot of talk about "I'm a gentleman" "I'm a nice guy" "I do this for women" "I will do that" But I never SEE and of it. In the end you are still a human being. You can be a "nice guy" to someone you like and an asshole to someone else. But....."I'm a nice guy"Am I making sense?? lol
My boyfriend is better than you...
yea im happy just having female company. he relationship i can do without right now.
but was talkin to this 39yr old and she was worse than some 19yr olds!!! im a personality guy,so if we mesh on that level i could care less what the age is. b ut more women of maturity fall into 35+
Yeah I understand where you are coming fromYeah...it's people period, cause even the "nice guys" do that shit.
What is a "nice guy" really???? Cause I hear a lot of talk about "I'm a gentleman" "I'm a nice guy" "I do this for women" "I will do that" But I never SEE and of it. In the end you are still a human being. You can be a "nice guy" to someone you like and an asshole to someone else. But....."I'm a nice guy"
Maturity comes with life experiences, more than likely why more mature people are in their 30's
I understand what you are saying.Thats real shit.I have thought about this once or twice beore myself.The way i see it is a "nice guy" is going to vary depending on the person's perspective.What makes them nice is the seeker wants out of a person in a relationship.And him being nice the the woman and a dick to another guy just makes him a gentleman that keeps it real.Yeah...it's people period, cause even the "nice guys" do that shit.
What is a "nice guy" really???? Cause I hear a lot of talk about "I'm a gentleman" "I'm a nice guy" "I do this for women" "I will do that" But I never SEE and of it. In the end you are still a human being. You can be a "nice guy" to someone you like and an asshole to someone else. But....."I'm a nice guy"
twenty-two
Good job, simon.
I think you need a guy who is nice and an asshole. I mean i like someone who is nice and caring, but if they are too nice and caring, it's just boring. You've got to put your foot down sometimes, because you don't want people to walk all over you. By putting your foot down, you might come off as an asshole, but you're just respecting yourself.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wEKLx...layer_embedded
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For some reason, people think that they're being "nice" as long as they're getting fucked over and/or used by someone.
That's not nice, that's just insecurity heh
If you find yourself in this situation over and over again, there's a good possibility you don't have the best self image, and you're relying on a woman who will accept you to feel better about yourself. There are PLENTY of "nice" people out there (both men and women) who can cut the manipulation thing out as soon as it starts.
My advice....take some time, I mean a LOT of time to think about WHAT it is, exactly, you are upset about. Once you find that, then think about why you're upset, what got you to that point, etc. You'll find the underlying issue, then you ask the same questions again. You'll continue to dig deeper and deeper into the issue, until you find your answer. I think it'd be good and healthy for you to do that and find the root of the problem before even thinking about getting involved with another woman.
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^ What that guy said.
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Hell part of the problem is the way we look at this shit. Look through this thread and look how people are describing personalities.......guys are either nice......or they're ASSHOLES. It's like, they're one end of the spectrum or the other.
Typically I find myself the most attracted to someone when I don't consciously think about them being "nice" or a "bitch".....they just are who they are.
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you are stupid but i agree with your last paragraph.
and i tell ppl y let one girl ruin your day? for every one taht sucks,there are a 100 more out there to try your hand at. you cant waste your time being mad at one chick. i tried that for about a week after my divorce and was like fuck that i need to get some pussy lol
men and women, no matter how much either gender fails, we cant live without each other.
Steps to a happy life:
1. Fuck bitches
2. Get money
repeat
bingo. its the personality. either i like yours or id ont. and i just go from there.
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trust me in atlanta, there is more than enough girls that you can say fuck you to one and find another the next day.
if the first girl doesn't work out, say fuck it, and just find a new girl. i mean, it's a like speed dating. just keep bouncing from table to table until you find one that you truly like. don't just settle for a girl just because she wants to be with you and you want someone. everyone deserves more than that.
i mean guys are the same too. if i don't like you the first date, i'm pretty sure the rest of the dates aren't gonna go great either. i just go looking for a new guy. but i'm with someone who i truly like and we get each other. he's really sweet, but he does have his moments just to show me i can't walk all over him. just like me, i'm really sweet to him, but i put my foot down.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wEKLx...layer_embedded
response from 03RCode: Hell, it turns me on. I have a steel hard erection as speak
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Women want to be treated like shit. The minute you're all lovey nice to them they're looking for an out.
The "nice guy" routine is just a total fucking FAIL because guys try it from the VERY FIRST MINUTE they meet the girl. At that point, you just look like a damn panderer, and give the person the green light to play doormat on your ass. The "nice guy" schtick pretty much only works once you have already established rapport with the girl, as at that point, you just look like a genuine, good, person. I see this happen all the time with people, as they try to play the "I'm the nicest guy in the world" routine, only to be stomped out repeatedly. Ironically, the girls that usually DO the stomping are also the ones that get treated like shit by other guys. I guess many guys think that because the girl has been treated so badly by other guys, she will wanna have someone who is the EXACT OPPOSITE of that. While this may be true, I don't think any girl wants a total pussy for a BF, so the happy medium is the key. K, end of rant!
tr00f!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wEKLx...layer_embedded
response from 03RCode: Hell, it turns me on. I have a steel hard erection as speak
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Just generalizing here. There are a billions of people in this world.....can't cover all the gray areas.
My boyfriend is better than you...
I know, but this is how people think about things a lot of the time. If someone doesn't fit the description of one extreme, then by default they must be the other extreme. You can't think that way.
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ppl just dont kow how to be themselves.
be you, dont try to do what you "think" someone wants. if they dont accept you, then fuck em.
Not true
See answers like these tells me that a lot of you are bitter and mad about what some dumb bitch has done to you in the past therefore us actual good girls have to suffer the consequences. The same goes for girls. I just want a good guy like myself without having to deal with insecurities brought on by their ex. But I'm sure some guys can say the same for some girls
It looks like you have been dealing with the wrong females. We don't WANT to be treated like shit......we SETTLE for shit. After a certain point you have to realize you can't settle for less than what you deserve, even if you've been with it for years and you really really like them and don't want anyone else.
My boyfriend is better than you...
word. ignorant ass women wanna be disrespected. and they have there place in society too. aka the girl u fuck and dont call anymore.
but something worth holding on to wont stand for that shit.
EXACTLY how I live my life on the daily!
Troof. Sooner or later you will get tired of being someone your not and your "true colors" will start to show. That's when you hear "what happened to the girl I met" lol. Uhhhhh she was fake.
oooo ooooo got something for ya!!! Most people in Atlanta are fake as hell so you gotta watch out for that too. Try to portray something they are not in order to look good on the outside. Yeah....you're driving a Benz, rockin the Bebe and Gucci, just got a $400 sew in, "I don't want a man that can't buy me more Bebe and Gucci" YOU FAKE AS HELL!!! lol. Good luck with that.
My boyfriend is better than you...
you said it yourself IGNORANT ass women want to be disrespected. They don't WANT to be disrespected, the SETTLE for the disrespect cuz they are IGNORANT
Like my thread a few days ago, a MAN does not disrespect a WOMAN. Dudes wanna say some disrespectful BS on here and think it's funny. But some of the females on here accept that and just laugh it off. Don't joke with me unless I know you because I will forever take you seriously and when I do meet you IRL I will remember the disrespect you showed me on here. Lesson I learned recently *bows*
My boyfriend is better than you...
Girl that's why I don't like ATL people. Those bitches be fake as hell!!!!!!!!!! They try and act like they are the shit because they just got a new outfit from Phipps Plaza, drive a mercedes, and weave all tight. Bitch please! You are as fake as that sew in weave! But pretending to be someone you aren't does eventually catch up to youIf someone can't except me for who I am (and I know I am so different), then the hell with them. If you can't see I'm a great catch, then I'm not the girl for you
QFTyou said it yourself IGNORANT ass women want to be disrespected. They don't WANT to be disrespected, the SETTLE for the disrespect cuz they are IGNORANT
Like my thread a few days ago, a MAN does not disrespect a WOMAN. Dudes wanna say some disrespectful BS on here and think it's funny. But some of the females on here accept that and just laugh it off. Don't joke with me unless I know you because I will forever take you seriously and when I do meet you IRL I will remember the disrespect you showed me on here. Lesson I learned recently *bows*
yea thats true. i only respect a woman as much as she respects herself. everytim i meet a girl, you get treated accordingly.
Again, this concept applies to guys as well
After reading these posts, I draw a conclusion.. that Im hung over and I shouldn't ran the mile after drinking and making myself throw-up and etc last night.
With that statement alone I see that how I manage my life.. I struggled these passed years with a relationship, going beyond means and limits... And this girl well, was my first for pretty much everything so things are abit more difficult in certain aspects [that I love her? of course, but not in that way.. ]. But to understand my first post or where this topic came from is to know my life story. I know to some of you might say, "either way you put it if the shoe doesn't fit IT doesn't fit."
Well, in the hispanic culture we live, atleast I was rised upon on morals and direct guidelines. Such as no sex till marriage, once married can't really divorce unless it's absloutly helpless, and etc. These are some of the foundations of my "life's physolopy". With this is mind, you are thinking "what does any of this can relate to this topic?" Well, some of it is pretty much striaght foward... but these are the charateratics of a "nice" person whether you be a girl or boy. [ hopefully someone on IA can relate or give a better understanding to this]
so bottom line is, being in this postion of being told "it's me or them?" or etc.. is total BS.
Standing your ground can be mislead and view differently, to some it's actions and others it's words. Knowing when to agure is where the fine print is, there is no telling when to do it, nor can it be said it's just known to the person in postion. [I dont expect any of you to understand this, just one indiviual.] So being quite or saying nothing at all helps in avoiding problems .. It may have seem to be a dick-ish move but it was a way to avoid conflict or confrontation. Because in the heat of the moment tention rises dramacticly and things could be said to a degree and it's hell's loose.
This is not my full 2 cents..
I co-sign on the pretenders and posers.
Moral of this thread: If you don't know yourself, or what you want, you will ACCEPT whatever rolls your way.
Not only is she fake.....but more than likely she has no common sense and will more than likely accept whatever a man gives her, to go with a matching low self esteem.Girl that's why I don't like ATL people. Those bitches be fake as hell!!!!!!!!!! They try and act like they are the shit because they just got a new outfit from Phipps Plaza, drive a mercedes, and weave all tight. Bitch please! You are as fake as that sew in weave! But pretending to be someone you aren't does eventually catch up to youBut....she does have some Gucci.....*sips on haterade*
My boyfriend is better than you...
Not only is she fake.....but more than likely she has no common sense and will more than likely accept whatever a man gives her, to go with a matching low self esteem.
That reminds me of video hoes lol
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Take it to PMs!!!!lol
Mr. Bautista.....What do YOU want? Think about it......What..........do...........YOOOOOOOOOOOOOO OOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOU....Want?
If what you are doing is making you unhappy......DON'T DO IT...... She will either go with you. Or she will move on. Nothing is set in stone until you are married. And even that's sketchy these days. Life is WAAAAY too short to not be happy. Be happy every chance you get, and those that test your happiness or don't treat you the way you deserve to be treated can kick rocks. She will go on to live a good life with or without you and you will too. You are an awesome person, if she doesn't know that, she will realize it one day. Hopefully for her, you will still want her lol. Until she realizes what she has.....instead of rocks, she can kick glass.
Just sounds like a bunch of drama *gag*
My boyfriend is better than you...
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