Brett,

Leisa would want you to be happy. I say you do what you feel. Only you can say when you are ready. Only you know what you and Leisa talked about. Ever since Val passed, I feel very strongly that God (or whatever ) starts preparing you for the death of a loved one in strange ways. Val and I talked for a very long time the night before she passed. We used to be pretty close but had our differences for a while before her passing. It was so weird to me that we had such a nice long talk about things like that right before she passed. For whatever reason, we both decided that night that we were really friends even if we acted like we weren't. We talked a lot about her life and how much she loved Tray and how happy she was that they were going to get married. She gave me a ton of advice on how to get Dan to marry me (butt secks ). It was like she was telling me all of the things she ever wanted me to know and I felt compelled to do the same with her. I feel like God (or whatever) was preparing me for her to go. I would have had a much harder time with her death and the way we left things if we didn't have that talk. Same goes for Leisa. God was preparing yo for her to go and made sure that you knew how she would want things to be when she was gone.

I'm not a religious person, but I am spiritual and this is my opinion