steph!! put his ass in jail for being a deadbeat dad!! thats what id do.. well i cant really tell ya what id do in case it gets done! BUT yeah defnitly what he said.. pick up, record conversation, then use it as proof in restraining order!! and if that doesnt work just tell him your moveing outa town! somewhere on the beach in the daytona area i hear is nice this time of year.. hint hint!