Oh, and one more thing........
Tiff......
This thread wasn't sparked by our conversation this morning, was it????
In a relationship and sexually active
Not in a relationship and sexually active
Married
In a relationship, dying to get out, but still sexually active
I'm Yousef and don't have sex
Other: Please Explain.
Oh, and one more thing........
Tiff......
This thread wasn't sparked by our conversation this morning, was it????
Originally Posted by Jaimecbr900
*cough* You obviously have NO idea how ancient I am. LOL...
Well put.#4. None of you will truly experience "good" anything until you are a compatible match with your partner. Like two puzzle pieces that fit perfectly. Everyone has faults and short comings. But when the pieces of the puzzle fit perfectly together.....none of those matter. THAT is when you finally have "good" anything.
And your other points as well.
I'm older than Brett AND QD......*cough* You obviously have NO idea how ancient I am. LOL...
Thank you.Well put.
And your other points as well.
my wife and i have both had other partners and we slept together on the 2nd date. we have been together 10 years this summer and married for 4. i have a better relationship w/ my wife then most people we know. obviously people who aren't married and haven't been married don't understand what sex is to a marriage.
Last edited by 4dmin; 08-13-2008 at 05:28 PM.
After a couple different threads, I know there is NOTHING in this world that would make you change you mind on this subject. Even if you dont think I do, I respect your willingness to stick to your plan.
That being said, I have heard other people say the same thing that I have quoted above from you. Though it was about doing certain drugs, dating the wrong people or even just hanging with a bad crowd, in all cases it wound up being a bad decision. Just because someone wants to do something and they set out to do it doesnt mean its the best option. The part of your quote in bold shows that you are hard headed, stubborn and unwilling to take other's advice...even when its good. Not necessarily just on this subject, but in other topics of life either.
Just some food for thought. But then again, opinions are just opinions and what do I know
Those kids??? meh...I'm older than Brett AND QD......
Potential suitors often ignore these signs....much to their dismay later.
I can't believe what a big deal people make of it. Sex is sex. Random, married, whatever. Your natural instinct is to want it, and from more than 1 person. It's human nature. It's meant to be enjoyed. As long as your smart and responsible about it, enjoy it.
Not 1 person on here can honestly say they only have sex with their wife/girlfriend/dog/whatever, and that's the only person they want to have sex with for the rest of their life.
yes sir excellent post... this is all more the reason people should experience it before marriage
Is this a serious question? Everyone on here except daddy's little angel is going to say they are okay with it.
The only guys who say they aren't are the ones who are virgins and they use it as an excuse.
Every dude wants to get laid under most or all circumstances. Every guy has ****ed that girl who isn't the prize winning horse under the circumstances he was drunk or no one would find out.
2005 Ford F-150 FX4 Supercrew
I've been given a d*ck and desires and I'm going to satisfy both of them damnit.
i fuking hate you Tiffany....
Val RIP
What If I say I DO and still don't have sexor what if i only have sex to procrate children.
hahahaha
I mean seriously, guys!
I'm not dying here to have sex. I've never had any form of sex. So I basically could go the rest of my life without it. But I can't because I want children, so I would at some point have to just stick it out there and say here! Lets make babies. hahaha
I got $50 saying that after her first time she's hooked.
I tried waiting, ended up giving it to a girl who I thought loved me, that was a mistake, but its true, once you have had it once, its hard not to want it again
97 DX Civic w/ H22 FS
Love you, Yousef.i fuking hate you Tiffany....
:boobies: &= :idb:
Probably left to go rub one out.
she DEF. left that part out.
He's probably the same way she is... only time he touches it, its to clean it. so what if he cleans too good and it misfires? LOL
Who knows?
Here are a few adages I've heard throughout the years:
a. ) Why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free?
b. ) Women are like hard wood floors, lay them right the first time and you'll never have a problem out of them.
Hahaha. Enjoy....and yes, they always hold true.
OR he is leaving to bang one (maybe 2) of her friends.
A-FUk1n-MEN!!!!!!!You rang, my dear?
Oh, after reading 10 pgs of this......I have plenty to say.
#1. Some of yall have really bad misconceptions about what "sex" really is.
A. Sex is not "wham, bam, thank you ma'am", unless is in a drunken stupor or that's what she's asking for.
B. Amount of sex is NEVER a substitute for QUALITY sex.
C. Great "sex" is in the eye of the beholder. Some people like some things that others find repulsive. It's their cup of tea, let them drink it. If THEY think it's good, that's all that really matters. So all of you that have all these super high expectations and demands for your "sex life" are going to be dissapointed if that's the ruler you choose to use.
#2. As probably THE oldest and LONGEST married guy on the board, I can tell you that A LOT of you have NO CLUE what a good married sex life is like. It certainly is NOT what yall think.
#3. Casual sex is just that casual. If there are no names exchanged, so what. If there are no numbers exchanged, so what. It is what it is. Refer to #1A above.
#4. None of you will truly experience "good" anything until you are a compatible match with your partner. Like two puzzle pieces that fit perfectly. Everyone has faults and short comings. But when the pieces of the puzzle fit perfectly together.....none of those matter. THAT is when you finally have "good" anything.
#5. Sex makes the world go round.
#6. Sex is great.
#7. Sex is not for everybody. My daughter, for example.
#8. The young lady who is making unreasonable demands on her life and more importantly everyone around her it seems......
Anyway, I'm not going to preach any harder about this subject because it would make me very transparent and I don't kiss and tell........
You rang, my dear?
Oh, after reading 10 pgs of this......I have plenty to say.
#1. Some of yall have really bad misconceptions about what "sex" really is.
A. Sex is not "wham, bam, thank you ma'am", unless is in a drunken stupor or that's what she's asking for.
B. Amount of sex is NEVER a substitute for QUALITY sex.
C. Great "sex" is in the eye of the beholder. Some people like some things that others find repulsive. It's their cup of tea, let them drink it. If THEY think it's good, that's all that really matters. So all of you that have all these super high expectations and demands for your "sex life" are going to be dissapointed if that's the ruler you choose to use.
#2. As probably THE oldest and LONGEST married guy on the board, I can tell you that A LOT of you have NO CLUE what a good married sex life is like. It certainly is NOT what yall think.
#3. Casual sex is just that casual. If there are no names exchanged, so what. If there are no numbers exchanged, so what. It is what it is. Refer to #1A above.
#4. None of you will truly experience "good" anything until you are a compatible match with your partner. Like two puzzle pieces that fit perfectly. Everyone has faults and short comings. But when the pieces of the puzzle fit perfectly together.....none of those matter. THAT is when you finally have "good" anything.
#5. Sex makes the world go round.
#6. Sex is great.
#7. Sex is not for everybody. My daughter, for example.
#8. The young lady who is making unreasonable demands on her life and more importantly everyone around her it seems......
Anyway, I'm not going to preach any harder about this subject because it would make me very transparent and I don't kiss and tell........
You are so awesome!!
prove it !!!
Val RIP
BTW, sex before marriage is against the law in georgia. therefore anyone who posted in here that they commence in such activity are admitting to breaking the law... we wouldn't want that, now would we?
haha.. .
Wow this thread kinda took a wide turn.. so im gonna throw in my money on it! Theres a few things i truly have to say about all this. First for what the thread was started for..
1) Yes i believe whole heartedly in sex before marriage. I have an adorable loveing son to prove it. And in the long run it would have made it even harder on his mother and i if we were married when she left me. (Dont get me wrong its not from cheating or anything of that nature) But Threw and threw i regret none of it.
2) Randomness Is always interesting every now and again, Though being picky is a downfall of mine, but ive definitly had my fair share of no brainers! besides the look on a girls face when you ask her what her name is again while your maken her crawl a wall.. it is kinda priceless!
3) Sex on the way out, well thats a different story for me. Im not a big fan of the one last ride, cause that just adds way to many complications to everything and if everythings already FUBAR'ed then im not gonna throw that whole thing into it!
Now ok onto the other half of the discussion! Im really glad and all that your sticken to your guns and standing by what you believe in and blah blah blah. I hope that things work out for ya. Though its about 10/1 odds that the first go round 1 of 2 things are going to happen. 1 on the good side you'll get a taste and then spend a good portion of your weekend in the bedroom.bathroom,kitchen table, and then spending the rest iceing your crotch from friction burns! or 2 you'll we'll be playen rock paper scissors on whos gonna get the washer and dryer! Like i said i wish ya the best but id really give that boy some. im pretty sure that his bed is getting tired of haveing holes drilled into it! You cant just think of yourself in a marriage. You giveing him a list and sayen that hes only there to fit your needs, That definitly isnt the right way to go about things. a marriage is more then just rings and commitment.. its also a healthy sex life and openess. being able to forfill each others needs keeps the relationship fresh and happy. be getting into a routine where everythings the same takes all the fun and adventure outa things. But in anycase i wish you the best of luck with all of that.
My sympathies to your future hubby.
I am very old, and with the same woman for a looooong time...as has been discussed
Good luck to you!
Very well said.My sympathies to your future hubby.
I am very old, and with the same woman for a looooong time...as has been discussed
Good luck to you!
Yall do realize that this type of advice usually costs a lot of money or a lot of headaches.......if you guys don't want to listen, then just pick which one you'd rather have (headache or money)
I hope for his sake (and yours) he really does...but my experience tells me otherwise.Thanks Metalman.
My fiance knew me before he dated me. So he undoubtly knows all about me, and what he would be in for when it comes to the type of woman I am.
how old are you? and he wouldn't want to marry you b/c of what?
I am aware you feel confident. I am also fully aware from experience that such confidence often is unfounded and disproven in the long run...sometimes even without the knowlege of the person with the confidence.
Many many a self confident person who 'knows' their spouse doesnt even know them at all. Seen it a million times. Why?? Often because such inviduals are too concerned/involved/consumed with their own needs and ideas to be aware of the reality.
Like I said, good luck with that.
I am not picking on you for being a virgin.
If I am picking on you its for thinking you know things you obviously dont...and thinking virginity is a 'test' that proves whos right to marry. It seems pretty clear froml your previous posts...and just confirmed it again. You are using your future hubbys "willing to wait" attitude for a test to prove something it does not.
Furthermore your interest in REAL compatibilty and compromise seems sorely lacking. Of course you have the 'virgin test' for that right?
Good luck with all of that!! I have seen this wayyyyyy toooo many times.
Seriously though...I wish you well.
Yeah! Exactly! The virgin test.
I realize I have taken on the impossible here...you are at the age where you already 'know' most everything...including how marriage works. I, on the other hand, have already lived alot if it and EXPERIENCED it. People like you almost never want to listen to advice from people like me.
Youre not the first 20 something yr old person that knows everything...even though they really dont.
Yeah! Exactly! The virgin test.
I realize I have taken on the impossible here...you are at the age where you already 'know' most everything...including how marriage works. I, on the other hand, have already lived alot if it and EXPERIENCED it. People like you almost never want to listen to advice from people like me.
Youre not the first 20 something yr old person that knows everything...even though they really dont.
lol - oh i miss metalman and our religious talks
Uhhh I was just reading your posts. lol
Anyway...I highly doubt we'll need to wait that long.
Good luck to you!!
Uhhh I was just reading your posts. lol
Anyway...I highly doubt we'll need to wait that long.
Good luck to you!!
lolzzz that wasnt a reference to you.lol - oh i miss metalman and our religious talks
It was a reference to myself.
oh i know i just was enjoying your comments... just felt like adding some lollerpixlolzzz that wasnt a reference to you.
It was a reference to myself.
Will this be before your hubby turns elsewhere for someone that cares what he thinks and wants...and for just nasty fun non child bearing sex? Or after?
Okay...now I am picking on you.
You obviously ARE making your own mistakes!
No one here will stop you I am sure.
BUT, you shouldnt fault us for trying.
Yeahh...uhhhuhh.
I aint assumin nuthin sweetie. I can read. Quite well in fact.
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