Sex Before Marriage: How do you feel about it?

**Tiff-O-Bitties** · 08-13-2008, 10:02 AM

I was just curious as to what everyone thinks about sex before marriage?

Like, if you are in a relationship with someone you care about, do you feel okay having sex before you are married?

What about just random sex?

What about if you are in a relationship and trying to get out, do you still think it's okay to sleep together?

Just wondering...

**DJ Maestro** · 08-13-2008, 10:05 AM

Originally Posted by Cav-E-R

I was just curious as to what everyone thinks about sex before marriage?

Like, if you are in a relationship with someone you care about, do you feel okay having sex before you are married?

What about just random sex?

What about if you are in a relationship and trying to get out, do you still think it's okay to sleep together?

Just wondering...

Sex before marriage - Definitely, have to test drive to make sure it's exactly what you want.

Random Sex - Definitely, have to get in multiple test drives to make smart comparisons.

Sex while in before out - Yes, even unhappy people have needs.

**carbon_crash** · 08-13-2008, 10:09 AM

Originally Posted by DJ Maestro

Sex before marriage - Definitely, have to test drive to make sure it's exactly what you want.

Random Sex - Definitely, have to get in multiple test drives to make smart comparisons.

Sex while in before out - Yes, even unhappy people have needs.

AGREED!!!

**Dr.G35** · 08-13-2008, 12:29 PM

Originally Posted by DJ Maestro

Sex before marriage - Definitely, have to test drive to make sure it's exactly what you want.

Random Sex - Definitely, have to get in multiple test drives to make smart comparisons.

Sex while in before out - Yes, even unhappy people have needs.

couldnt have said it better myself

**willum14pb** · 08-13-2008, 10:09 AM

trying to get out of a relationship dont' sleep with the person. I was all about random sex after i lost my virginity in a relationship, gotta get your fix! lol.

Plus, the way i see it, gotta try out the merchandise before you buy it. Make sure it's what you want.

**Leisa** · 08-13-2008, 10:13 AM

I just cant even imagine ( and Im not knocking anyone) but if you are in love with each other then I dont see what the big deal is about.Granted I understand that saving yourself for that special person at marriage is supposed to be this grand thing. However giving yourself to the one you love is the best feeling in the world.

Random sex... I have had my share, was not a big deal..

Sex during a "trying to get out" relationship. I know from experience that when getting a divorce, and papers have been filed, you cant have sex, or else you would have to refile and start all over again.

Each person is different... of course you will have different answers

**eViLMunkey** · 08-13-2008, 10:11 AM

Always gotta test the goods... whether you're in a relationship or not...

**Ran** · 08-13-2008, 10:13 AM

I respect those that wait until marriage for sex. I actually tried to wait but, well, I gave in and am now practically a sex fiend. If someone can wait it out, then more power to them and I wish them the best.

Me and my girlfriend are actually cutting back on the sex since she's getting back into her religious faith. It's taking it's toll though...

**NevrNufTorq** · 08-13-2008, 10:34 AM

Originally Posted by Ran

I respect those that wait until marriage for sex. I actually tried to wait but, well, I gave in and am now practically a sex fiend. If someone can wait it out, then more power to them and I wish them the best.

Me and my girlfriend are actually cutting back on the sex since she's getting back into her religious faith. It's taking it's toll though...

x2, i tried myself, but at 23 that was all over...def no saint before that but hadnt done the deed itself

cant imagine how tough it would be to cut back after 'starting the engine' and i'm bigtime into my faith but i have come to the conclusion i'm just not perfect...every time i try to not do it in a relationship that one issue ends up consuming it. would def be easier in a new relationship and not one that has been ongoing for a period of time. i take it this is where all those religious ?'s came from a while back?

later man

**Ran** · 08-13-2008, 10:38 AM

Originally Posted by NevrNufTorq

x2, i tried myself, but at 23 that was all over...def no saint before that but hadnt done the deed itself

I hear ya man. I didn't quite make it to 23 though. Not even close actually. lol

Originally Posted by NevrNufTorq

cant imagine how tough it would be to cut back after 'starting the engine' and i'm bigtime into my faith but i have come to the conclusion i'm just not perfect...every time i try to not do it in a relationship that one issue ends up consuming it. would def be easier in a new relationship and not one that has been ongoing for a period of time. i take it this is where all those religious ?'s came from a while back?

We accept that we're not perfect, but she still gets a twinge of guilt afterwards because I guess she knows that it's not right and we do it sometimes anyway. It sucks because I'm a horndog and I know that I'm not making it any easier on her though I am trying.

Also, yeah this is part of where some of the religious threads I made have come from. It seems to be taking more and more priority in our relationship and, while I am studying and learning, I'm just not sure it's going to work out for me.

**NevrNufTorq** · 08-13-2008, 10:47 AM

Originally Posted by Ran

I hear ya man. I didn't quite make it to 23 though. Not even close actually. lol

We accept that we're not perfect, but she still gets a twinge of guilt afterwards because I guess she knows that it's not right and we do it sometimes anyway. It sucks because I'm a horndog and I know that I'm not making it any easier on her though I am trying.

Also, yeah this is part of where some of the religious threads I made have come from. It seems to be taking more and more priority in our relationship and, while I am studying and learning, I'm just not sure it's going to work out for me.

the guilt thing is a major issue for some people, but to me, unless she's perfect in everything else she does, there is no need to feel more guilty about sex than any other sin in her life. not an excuse to do whatever you want, just saying as far as the guilt thing goes. peole prioritize(sp?) sin too much and try to say one thing is worse than the other, when ALL sin blinds us from God, not just one that we percieve to be worse than lets say lying to a family member.

as far as your studying goes, i couldnt ask anything more, then you can make an educated decision on what you believe and why you believe it!!! just know, faith does go alot deeper than the knowledge also, but i bet you never met a rocket scientist who didnt knwo his physics as well as his belief that said rocket would fly(no pun to the thread intended)

**OTG Signs** · 08-13-2008, 10:12 AM

Have to test drive the car before you buy it.

**SixSquared** · 08-13-2008, 12:23 PM

Originally Posted by OTG Signs

Have to test drive the car before you buy it.

my thoughts exactly.

**OTG Signs** · 08-13-2008, 12:46 PM

Originally Posted by xPhantomSilviax

my thoughts exactly.

Nice avatar!

**Tiff-O-Bitties** · 08-13-2008, 10:13 AM

So basically if she's a dead f*** or maybe doesn't do it your way, etc.. you won't "buy?"

**willum14pb** · 08-13-2008, 10:15 AM

Originally Posted by Cav-E-R

So basically if she's a dead f*** or maybe doesn't do it your way, etc.. you won't "buy?"

If she's willing to work on it and i love her i will. However, if she's a dead **** and doesn't care, PEACE.

**eViLMunkey** · 08-13-2008, 10:17 AM

Originally Posted by Cav-E-R

So basically if she's a dead f*** or maybe doesn't do it your way, etc.. you won't "buy?"

Well if she's a dead lay but you have a real connection w/ that one, you can fix it...

but other than that gotta ditch it. .

**Ran** · 08-13-2008, 10:29 AM

Originally Posted by Cav-E-R

So basically if she's a dead f*** or maybe doesn't do it your way, etc.. you won't "buy?"

Why do people always complain about a dead lay? Just throw her down on her back, fold her legs behind her head, and go to town.

**DJ Maestro** · 08-13-2008, 10:31 AM

Originally Posted by Ran

Why do people always complain about a dead lay? Just throw her down on her back, fold her legs behind her head, and go to town.

Ran and the RealDoll.

**Ran** · 08-13-2008, 10:33 AM

Originally Posted by DJ Maestro

Ran and the RealDoll.

RealDoll?

EDIT: You know what, nevermind. I don't even want to know.

**civic95** · 08-13-2008, 07:30 PM

I can't believe what a big deal people make of it. Sex is sex. Random, married, whatever. Your natural instinct is to want it, and from more than 1 person. It's human nature. It's meant to be enjoyed. As long as your smart and responsible about it, enjoy it.

Not 1 person on here can honestly say they only have sex with their wife/girlfriend/dog/whatever, and that's the only person they want to have sex with for the rest of their life.

**Tiff-O-Bitties** · 08-13-2008, 10:33 AM

Originally Posted by Ran

Why do people always complain about a dead lay? Just throw her down on her back, fold her legs behind her head, and go to town.

Hell I don't know.. I've never been one, so I don't know.

**twinj** · 08-13-2008, 10:15 AM

Originally Posted by Cav-E-R

So basically if she's a dead f*** or maybe doesn't do it your way, etc.. you won't "buy?"

Agreed^^

**Deke** · 08-13-2008, 10:17 AM

haha, I like how there is no choice other than some form of sexual activity

(well, and yousef)

Personally, I'm not in a relationship and sexually active. But I definitely have respect for people with the convictions to wait until marriage. And if I met the right girl that had those convictions...who knows.

**Tiff-O-Bitties** · 08-13-2008, 10:18 AM

lolz... that's funny... You know though.. it does go both ways, just girls aren't as open about it..

I dated this guy once that had a small pee-pee and I liked him a lot and had to look over his issue, then the basta*d cheated on me... I made sure to tell him that his pee-pee was the size of a 5 year old boy and he had nothing to be proud of and that if I were him I'd become a monk so no one else ever has to see that thing..

**eViLMunkey** · 08-13-2008, 10:22 AM

Originally Posted by Cav-E-R

lolz... that's funny... You know though.. it does go both ways, just girls aren't as open about it..

I dated this guy once that had a small pee-pee and I liked him a lot and had to look over his issue, then the basta*d cheated on me... I made sure to tell him that his pee-pee was the size of a 5 year old boy and he had nothing to be proud of and that if I were him I'd become a monk so no one else ever has to see that thing..

Bwahahaha

I dated one girl who wanted to wait till marriage and so far that has been the longest relationship I've had.

**Tiff-O-Bitties** · 08-13-2008, 10:24 AM

Originally Posted by eViLMunkey

Bwahahaha

I dated one girl who wanted to wait till marriage and so far that has been the longest relationship I've had.

had, as in past tense, or present?

I think it's admirable to wait... It's definitely tough... I'm trying to do it now, but I might break down given a crazy night (which don't happen often thanks to my son!!)

**eViLMunkey** · 08-13-2008, 11:58 AM

Originally Posted by Cav-E-R

had, as in past tense, or present?

I think it's admirable to wait... It's definitely tough... I'm trying to do it now, but I might break down given a crazy night (which don't happen often thanks to my son!!)

yes past since I'm no longer w/ that person, and I'm mainly work oriented now so I haven't been dating for close to a year now...

**DieselNuts** · 08-13-2008, 12:06 PM

Originally Posted by Cav-E-R

I made sure to tell him that his pee-pee was the size of a 5 year old boy

DAMN, HOW DID HE WALK?

**mocha latte cupcake** · 08-13-2008, 10:32 AM

well being that i've lived and learned i'll jump in here.

before marriage - i don't do it anymore, i had my 1 person i lost it to. (what a disaster that was, but i guess i learned alot about what i want, and that people lie to get what they want) but i would definately want to try the car before i bought it. i mean there is always room for improvement but if someone is a dead lay (thanks #1 preciate that) then i won't be buying it. its kinda sad to say but the only thing that seperates friends from lovers is a sexual encounter (friends with benefits aside) but basically if she can't get me off or do the things that make me happy in the bed room i don't see myself locking down into a lifetime of marriage and love with that person. thats like knowing the lake is full of alligators but you jump in anyways already knowing whats going to happen i think its stupid. now i'll say that i haven't had sex since that 1 person and i'm quite happy about it. i get my joys from other places than just full on sex. besides not having to worry about the classic "i'm late" thing is something i never have to worry about. i don't do it b/c it gives me a peace of mind, and my religious faith is more important to me, than some random chick who's easy to get laid from in a few dates time.

just my personal opinion

amy - have a dead lay and you'll understand its not like your loli doll that you get to do whatever you want lol. they b!tch complain and irritate you b/c its like trying to have sex with someone who is just well..... dead

its like OMG do something stop being a lazy whiny b!tch! lol

**Nemesis** · 08-13-2008, 10:36 AM

Im more of a fan of waiting to have sex with your partner until you know each other well. Definitly not in the first 8-12 months of a relationship. Sex tends to make things complicated for a lot of people.

**mocha latte cupcake** · 08-13-2008, 10:37 AM

Originally Posted by Nemesis

Im more of a fan of waiting to have sex with your partner until you know each other well. Definitly not in the first 8-12 months of a relationship. Sex tends to make things complicated for a lot of people.

tr00f

**Nomad!** · 08-13-2008, 10:38 AM

I'm never getting married so, I just need to find a tramp who's free from infection & loves midgets.

**Ran** · 08-13-2008, 10:39 AM

Originally Posted by Nomad!

I'm never getting married so, I just need to find a tramp who's free from infection & loves midgets.

Go party just outside of Las Vegas. Legal prostitution is rather adundant even here in the US.

**Nomad!** · 08-13-2008, 11:02 AM

Originally Posted by Ran

Go party just outside of Las Vegas. Legal prostitution is rather adundant even here in the US.

I don't want to have to pay for a tramp that's free from infection & loves midgets. Surely there's one or two somewhere around Atlanta

**Kevykev** · 08-13-2008, 10:50 AM

Originally Posted by Cav-E-R

I was just curious as to what everyone thinks about sex before marriage?

Like, if you are in a relationship with someone you care about, do you feel okay having sex before you are married?

I do it but according to the Bible it is wrong.

What about if you are in a relationship and trying to get out, do you still think it's okay to sleep together?

The answer is obvious here It's like trying to quit smoking by SMOKING

Just wondering...

Answers above ^

**Tiff-O-Bitties** · 08-13-2008, 11:08 AM

Originally Posted by Kevykev

Answers above ^

I love the word additions.. Thanks Kev.. You can read my mind, lol!

Originally Posted by shagwAg3n

premarital sex is a must imo....but what i want to know is why are you inquiring tiff?

Really just curious.

**ShooterMcGavin** · 08-13-2008, 10:56 AM

premarital sex is a must imo....but what i want to know is why are you inquiring tiff?

**Brett** · 08-13-2008, 11:12 AM

By the time Yousef has sex, Jesus will have to personally come down and bring him a b*tch

**Reaper** · 08-13-2008, 11:40 AM

I try to keep my whoring to a minimum, but while in a relationship I'm definitely sexually active...

But I definitely have respect for those who wait till marriage to have sex, just because that takes a LOT of restraint, and you don't see it very often this day and age.

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