Quote Originally Posted by metalman
My sympathies to your future hubby.

I am very old, and with the same woman for a looooong time...as has been discussed , it has been my experience to observe that many people with a conservative, self interested attitude end up 'screwed over' and/or cheated on in the long run. Beyond compatibility, marriage is all about compromise. And that often/usually requires a spirit of adventure...the willingness to happily both try and do things ones spouse has interest in...be it sexual or otherwise. Anything less is not really an ideal marriage where both are fulfilled but one where only ones needs are of primary concern and the others doesnt count for much. That recipe is usually not a tasty one.

Good luck to you!
Very well said.

Yall do realize that this type of advice usually costs a lot of money or a lot of headaches.......if you guys don't want to listen, then just pick which one you'd rather have (headache or money) .