Quote Originally Posted by Ran
I dunno about all that. I enjoy being on top and in control. All she has to do is squeeze and I'm good to go
maybe she would like it too. she really just doesn't know. what if you try something new and go "oh wait why didn't i like that before?" over time, your preference in sexual activities change.

Quote Originally Posted by DieselNuts
exactly. It takes time to figure out what you like and sometimes you have to try new things that you typically wouldnt do. I have done that myself and to my suprise, there are things that I and my GF like that we would have never known if we didnt try.
that is exactly what i'm trying to say. like one time i had an asthma attack during sex and thought that it was real good sex, my guy decided maybe i like to be choked while having sex. so next time, we are going to try it. i mean you have to try new things. break out of your shell basically and get your freak on. then you would enjoy it to the fullest extent.