Sex Before Marriage: How do you feel about it?

[crazzzy_good]

I dunno about all that. I enjoy being on top and in control. All she has to do is squeeze and I'm good to go

maybe she would like it too. she really just doesn't know. what if you try something new and go "oh wait why didn't i like that before?" over time, your preference in sexual activities change.

exactly. It takes time to figure out what you like and sometimes you have to try new things that you typically wouldnt do. I have done that myself and to my suprise, there are things that I and my GF like that we would have never known if we didnt try.

that is exactly what i'm trying to say. like one time i had an asthma attack during sex and thought that it was real good sex, my guy decided maybe i like to be choked while having sex. so next time, we are going to try it. i mean you have to try new things. break out of your shell basically and get your freak on. then you would enjoy it to the fullest extent.

[DieselNuts]

maybe i like to be choked while having sex. so next time, we are going to try it. i mean you have to try new things. break out of your shell basically and get your freak on. then you would enjoy it to the fullest extent.

lol, thats actually one of the things I was thinking about when writing my post

[BobbyFresco]

lol, thats actually one of the things I was thinking about when writing my post

The girl that I'm having relations with currently likes to be choked and spanked and basically degraded during sex and I really didn't think I could get into it but I have...To me it's still a little weird though because I personally couldn't get off on being treated that way but whatever....

[DieselNuts]

yeah, i mean i would have never known if i didn't try.

yep. She actually likes it so much, she does it when she masturbates

The girl that I'm having relations with currently likes to be choked and spanked and basically degraded during sex and I really didn't think I could get into it but I have...To me it's still a little weird though because I personally couldn't get off on being treated that way but whatever....

Im in a similar situation. I never thought I could be the one doing the dirty talk....come to find out....

[DieselNuts]

Referring to me with that masturbation comment because the only thing that goes near that region of my is a tampon.

WTF are you talking about? I was talking about MY girlfriend...not you Prudance

[metalman]

LOL Masturbation? Hope you weren't referring to me. Only thing that goes near that region of my body, is a wash cloth when im in the shower getting clean, or a tampon for my monthly cycle otherwise:

The perfect (yet unrealistic) catholic view. Just ignore mother nature...she'll go away.

Here's a word to the wise....adults who have never experienced anything sexually, whether masturbation or otherwise, have NO idea what they like, dislike, will come to like, or dislike. The journey to understanding ones self or finding a compatible partner is not fulfilled by just staying a virgin and keeping your hand off the lower regions.

[BobbyFresco]

And we thank you for that bit of elaboration.

I bet you've never been accused of being self absorbed, stuck up, or frigid. / sarcasm.

[Leisa]

* Looks around for Jaime *

[Lizbiz101]

Noooooooooo not meeeee.....neverness!

Who is this *****?? Is this Autum cuz it sure looks like it.

[BobbyFresco]

like one time i had an asthma attack during sex and thought that it was real good sex, my guy decided maybe i like to be choked while having sex. so next time, we are going to try it. i mean you have to try new things. break out of your shell basically and get your freak on. then you would enjoy it to the fullest extent.