Sex Before Marriage: How do you feel about it?

[DieselNuts]

yeah, i mean i would have never known if i didn't try.

yep. She actually likes it so much, she does it when she masturbates

The girl that I'm having relations with currently likes to be choked and spanked and basically degraded during sex and I really didn't think I could get into it but I have...To me it's still a little weird though because I personally couldn't get off on being treated that way but whatever....

Im in a similar situation. I never thought I could be the one doing the dirty talk....come to find out....

[DieselNuts]

Referring to me with that masturbation comment because the only thing that goes near that region of my is a tampon.

WTF are you talking about? I was talking about MY girlfriend...not you Prudance

[metalman]

LOL Masturbation? Hope you weren't referring to me. Only thing that goes near that region of my body, is a wash cloth when im in the shower getting clean, or a tampon for my monthly cycle otherwise:

The perfect (yet unrealistic) catholic view. Just ignore mother nature...she'll go away.

Here's a word to the wise....adults who have never experienced anything sexually, whether masturbation or otherwise, have NO idea what they like, dislike, will come to like, or dislike. The journey to understanding ones self or finding a compatible partner is not fulfilled by just staying a virgin and keeping your hand off the lower regions.

[BobbyFresco]

And we thank you for that bit of elaboration.

I bet you've never been accused of being self absorbed, stuck up, or frigid. / sarcasm.

[Leisa]

* Looks around for Jaime *

[NevrNufTorq]

* Looks around for Jaime *

yeah, where is 'Mr. Elaboration'?!?!?!?! he's always got something good to say on serious topics, tony too for that matter!!!

[Jaimecbr900]

* Looks around for Jaime *

You rang, my dear?

Oh, after reading 10 pgs of this......I have plenty to say.

#1. Some of yall have really bad misconceptions about what "sex" really is.
A. Sex is not "wham, bam, thank you ma'am", unless is in a drunken stupor or that's what she's asking for.
B. Amount of sex is NEVER a substitute for QUALITY sex.
C. Great "sex" is in the eye of the beholder. Some people like some things that others find repulsive. It's their cup of tea, let them drink it. If THEY think it's good, that's all that really matters. So all of you that have all these super high expectations and demands for your "sex life" are going to be dissapointed if that's the ruler you choose to use.

#2. As probably THE oldest and LONGEST married guy on the board, I can tell you that A LOT of you have NO CLUE what a good married sex life is like. It certainly is NOT what yall think.

#3. Casual sex is just that casual. If there are no names exchanged, so what. If there are no numbers exchanged, so what. It is what it is. Refer to #1A above.

#4. None of you will truly experience "good" anything until you are a compatible match with your partner. Like two puzzle pieces that fit perfectly. Everyone has faults and short comings. But when the pieces of the puzzle fit perfectly together.....none of those matter. THAT is when you finally have "good" anything.

#5. Sex makes the world go round.
#6. Sex is great.
#7. Sex is not for everybody. My daughter, for example.
#8. The young lady who is making unreasonable demands on her life and more importantly everyone around her it seems...... I don't know you, so I'll reserve judgement until you make more comments. I will say that while I commend you for staying true to your course.....How worthy of the merit are you if you are abrasive about it? Think about it.

Anyway, I'm not going to preach any harder about this subject because it would make me very transparent and I don't kiss and tell........

[Jaimecbr900]

Oh, and one more thing........



Tiff......


This thread wasn't sparked by our conversation this morning, was it????

[metalman]

#2. As probably THE oldest and LONGEST married guy on the board,

*cough* You obviously have NO idea how ancient I am. LOL...

#4. None of you will truly experience "good" anything until you are a compatible match with your partner. Like two puzzle pieces that fit perfectly. Everyone has faults and short comings. But when the pieces of the puzzle fit perfectly together.....none of those matter. THAT is when you finally have "good" anything.

Well put.

And your other points as well.

[Jaimecbr900]

*cough* You obviously have NO idea how ancient I am. LOL...

I'm older than Brett AND QD......

Well put.

And your other points as well.

Thank you.

[DR_Imports]

You rang, my dear?

Oh, after reading 10 pgs of this......I have plenty to say.

#1. Some of yall have really bad misconceptions about what "sex" really is.
A. Sex is not "wham, bam, thank you ma'am", unless is in a drunken stupor or that's what she's asking for.
B. Amount of sex is NEVER a substitute for QUALITY sex.
C. Great "sex" is in the eye of the beholder. Some people like some things that others find repulsive. It's their cup of tea, let them drink it. If THEY think it's good, that's all that really matters. So all of you that have all these super high expectations and demands for your "sex life" are going to be dissapointed if that's the ruler you choose to use.

#2. As probably THE oldest and LONGEST married guy on the board, I can tell you that A LOT of you have NO CLUE what a good married sex life is like. It certainly is NOT what yall think.

#3. Casual sex is just that casual. If there are no names exchanged, so what. If there are no numbers exchanged, so what. It is what it is. Refer to #1A above.

#4. None of you will truly experience "good" anything until you are a compatible match with your partner. Like two puzzle pieces that fit perfectly. Everyone has faults and short comings. But when the pieces of the puzzle fit perfectly together.....none of those matter. THAT is when you finally have "good" anything.

#5. Sex makes the world go round.
#6. Sex is great.
#7. Sex is not for everybody. My daughter, for example.
#8. The young lady who is making unreasonable demands on her life and more importantly everyone around her it seems...... I don't know you, so I'll reserve judgement until you make more comments. I will say that while I commend you for staying true to your course.....How worthy of the merit are you if you are abrasive about it? Think about it.

Anyway, I'm not going to preach any harder about this subject because it would make me very transparent and I don't kiss and tell........

A-FUk1n-MEN!!!!!!!

[Leisa]

You rang, my dear?

Oh, after reading 10 pgs of this......I have plenty to say.

#1. Some of yall have really bad misconceptions about what "sex" really is.
A. Sex is not "wham, bam, thank you ma'am", unless is in a drunken stupor or that's what she's asking for.
B. Amount of sex is NEVER a substitute for QUALITY sex.
C. Great "sex" is in the eye of the beholder. Some people like some things that others find repulsive. It's their cup of tea, let them drink it. If THEY think it's good, that's all that really matters. So all of you that have all these super high expectations and demands for your "sex life" are going to be dissapointed if that's the ruler you choose to use.

#2. As probably THE oldest and LONGEST married guy on the board, I can tell you that A LOT of you have NO CLUE what a good married sex life is like. It certainly is NOT what yall think.

#3. Casual sex is just that casual. If there are no names exchanged, so what. If there are no numbers exchanged, so what. It is what it is. Refer to #1A above.

#4. None of you will truly experience "good" anything until you are a compatible match with your partner. Like two puzzle pieces that fit perfectly. Everyone has faults and short comings. But when the pieces of the puzzle fit perfectly together.....none of those matter. THAT is when you finally have "good" anything.

#5. Sex makes the world go round.
#6. Sex is great.
#7. Sex is not for everybody. My daughter, for example.
#8. The young lady who is making unreasonable demands on her life and more importantly everyone around her it seems...... I don't know you, so I'll reserve judgement until you make more comments. I will say that while I commend you for staying true to your course.....How worthy of the merit are you if you are abrasive about it? Think about it.

Anyway, I'm not going to preach any harder about this subject because it would make me very transparent and I don't kiss and tell........

You are so awesome!!

[Lizbiz101]

Noooooooooo not meeeee.....neverness!

Who is this *****?? Is this Autum cuz it sure looks like it.

[DieselNuts]

Who is this *****?? Is this Autum cuz it sure looks like it.

No, thats not autumn. She is who she says she is.

[Dr.G35]

LOL. No I'm not Autum. I don't even personally know her.

I just answered a question to this thread. And of course since I don't believe in sex before marriage it'll be made into a huge deal.

mad props for standing for what you believe in though. no e-thuggin from me.

[Dr.G35]

Thank you.

Hot car by the way, I'd rub my butt on it!!

Hey! Hey! Hey! Only if your butt is extra extra and i MEAN EXTRA smooth or you have 750 count egyptian cotton pajama's or undees!

[DieselNuts]

Hey! Hey! Hey! Only if your butt is extra extra and i MEAN EXTRA smooth or you have 750 count egyptian cotton pajama's or undees!

well, Im sure its never seen sexy panties lol. Every day is laundry day

[SlowsterCivy]

Hey! Hey! Hey! Only if your butt is extra extra and i MEAN EXTRA smooth or you have 750 count egyptian cotton pajama's or undees!

LoL. I get all my stuff from VS. So I dunno what they are made with!

[BobbyFresco]

LOL. No I'm not Autum. I don't even personally know her.

I just answered a question to this thread. And of course since I don't believe in sex before marriage it'll be made into a huge deal.

It's not about your no sex before marriage stance....It's because of your attitude in general...You come off sounding very selfish and demanding in more ways than one....and it's not the first time someone has said that about you at least on IA because Sport1.3 called you out on it and the issue wasn't sex at that particular moment. You have a lot to learn, point blank. If you choose to hold on to the it's my way or screw you attitude you have, you're going to have a very rude awakening.

[SlowsterCivy]

It's not about your no sex before marriage stance....It's because of your attitude in general...You come off sounding very selfish and demanding in more ways than one....and it's not the first time someone has said that about you at least on IA because Sport1.3 called you out on it and the issue wasn't sex at that particular moment. You have a lot to learn, point blank. If you choose to hold on to the it's my way or screw you attitude you have, you're going to have a very rude awakening.

This is a forum.....I am having fun............

I don't see what the harm is?

Keep in mind what I type on a forum, and what comes out of my mouth in person are two completely different thinks, but it's beside the point because you and no one on here would ever meet me in person....so it's kinda a dead issue...