alright, heres the deal

i frequent a restraunt quite often, and i got the same waitress every single time for almost a year

so we start talking and what not.. shes a car nut, into old school v-dubs, now she has a 350z yadda yadda

anyways, so we start hanging out and what not (as just friends, she had a bf at the time) but now she has changed jobs and is now an exotic dancer at a buckhead club

let me add to that by saying that this girl is absolutely gorgeous, down to earth, level headed and is doing it to get through school

she likes me, i like her.... but im just not sure if i can get used to the whole exotic dancer thing... i mean, not the jealousy thing... because i could sit there and go.. yea, thats mine... its just her line of work?!? maybe im just flipping out

plus she wants me to come down and see her... now dont get me wrong. im all for some T&A but when we are slowly becoming more than friends.. i dont really wanna walk in and see her ass naked on a pole. it would be a little bit more than ankward to me.


maybe im just blowing the whole thing out of proportion but i dunno
help?