Quote Originally Posted by Killer
no idea, other than fairy tales make them believe so... and also they see their friends getting married, so they think they ought to as well....

the first yr, even 2 years of a relationship are normally perfect... then you hit the 3 yr mark and everything starts getting rough... called the third year lull, if you haven't made it to that or through that i don't think you should get married... there are exceptions, but i've personally been through it, and so have most of my friends...
i understand, i have been with my girl three years, and I am just now thinking of marraige.