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    Default here i go!!

    im off to my x wifes b-day party,well we are still married. the messed up part is her boyfriend will be there. i hope i dont goto jail....wish me luck!!!
    yes i am....

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    Quote Originally Posted by bodydropped
    im off to my x wifes b-day party,well we are still married. the messed up part is her boyfriend will be there. i hope i dont goto jail....wish me luck!!!
    good luck...sounds like you will need it...
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    Quote Originally Posted by bodydropped
    im off to my x wifes b-day party,
    Didn't know this. Lolol. Later, QD.
    FOR MORE INFO, CLICK THE PIC!!!


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    i know i talk about it all the time,i just cant let go. i bought a bunch of flowers and cake and candy and balloons and since i still have a key to her car well my car, im gonna sneak over and fill it up with all of these goodies.hehehe and a b-day card that says to my loving wife hahaha her boyfreind is gonna love it,im the devil
    yes i am....

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    Lolol. No, seriously, I didn't know you were married. I don't think I did. Were you when we went ghosthunting? Later, QD.
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    I say. Beat his ass. And you get her back.

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    Sorry to hear that though. Its hard letting go of that type of stuff.

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    Quote Originally Posted by quickdodgeŽ
    Lolol. No, seriously, I didn't know you were married. I don't think I did. Were you when we went ghosthunting? Later, QD.
    we never went ghost hunting,i wanted to but never got to.ive been married for the 6 years and was with her for 8 years.
    yes i am....

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    well,im out the door.only god can help me now!!!
    yes i am....

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    Quote Originally Posted by bodydropped
    we never went ghost hunting,i wanted to but never got to.ive been married for the 6 years and was with her for 8 years.
    That's right. Dammit. I was thinking of someone else. I'll have to get with you in a month or so. Later, QD.
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    I wanna go ghost hunting..

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    so why are you going man- i dont think it could end up well. at least stay sober- that may help
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    Quote Originally Posted by jdmjames
    i dont think it could end up well. at least stay sober- that may help
    depends on whether or not the bf is an asshole.
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    Quote Originally Posted by bodydropped
    well,im out the door.only god can help me now!!!
    Oh shit. I wish you luck and godspeed!
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    I want an update when you get back...

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    married but not? hmmmm
    ya know legally you could have him arrested
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    Quote Originally Posted by quickdodgeŽ
    That's right. Dammit. I was thinking of someone else. I'll have to get with you in a month or so. Later, QD.
    You think the divorce will be final by then? You might want to wait a couple months, hahaha

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    omg,what a night, i took her man out got him fucked up!!! now im broke.its all go though,i got like 2 hours to pour my heart out to her.i begged like a little bitch. i made her cry and so did i. i asked for a new start and i pray she will consider. what do i do?
    i want my life back,should i just do the world a favor and off myself? i meant evey word i said,will a woman please chime in and say something. how can i fix this? i asked for a fresh start one step at a time. just to test the water.
    im still in love with her and its makin me crazy,im fucked i know,ie gotta have her back ive gotta....
    yes i am....

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    Quote Originally Posted by bodydropped
    omg,what a night, i took her man out got him fucked up!!! now im broke.its all go though,i got like 2 hours to pour my heart out to her.i begged like a little bitch. i made her cry and so did i. i asked for a new start and i pray she will consider. what do i do?
    i want my life back,should i just do the world a favor and off myself? i meant evey word i said,will a woman please chime in and say something. how can i fix this? i asked for a fresh start one step at a time. just to test the water.
    im still in love with her and its makin me crazy,im fucked i know,ie gotta have her back ive gotta....
    what the hell did you guys split for?

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    Quote Originally Posted by bodydropped
    omg,what a night, i took her man out got him fucked up!!! now im broke.its all go though,i got like 2 hours to pour my heart out to her.i begged like a little bitch. i made her cry and so did i. i asked for a new start and i pray she will consider. what do i do?
    i want my life back,should i just do the world a favor and off myself? i meant evey word i said,will a woman please chime in and say something. how can i fix this? i asked for a fresh start one step at a time. just to test the water.
    im still in love with her and its makin me crazy,im fucked i know,ie gotta have her back ive gotta....
    Hell yeah! and have somebody on IA take pics and post them up for us.

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    we got married young,wild oats i guess.. shes pregnat right now with another mans kid and we have a son together but i dont care. i really dont know why we split it was like a slap in the face...
    yes i am....

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    You want some real advice.

    Let her go, if you act like you don't care and don't always try to call her and get out of her life she will start to miss you. Right now she is mot missing you because you haven't really gotten out of her life, and she feels she hasn't had a fair shot with this other guy yet because you are still around. So if you just leave her alone she will start to realize that you mean a lot to her and really miss you and she will come back to you, garunteed. Happened to me multiply times.

    Also, don't beg.





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    your the 10th person to say that, i did beg i guess, if i wait mybe she will fall for someone else. i wanna move on but its to damn hard..
    yes i am....

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    Never beg dude, has some fucking pride, not too much but enough to not beg some woman to dump her future babies daddy and come back to you while you cry like a little school girl. Stop showing her attention and make her think you are gone and she will miss you and she will be the one begging in no time at all.

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    ive been doing that for 5 months,am i out now or what? i just want a simple life and someone to love me for me,understand. i swaer to god i thought she was the one...im destroyed right now its fuckin awful.
    yes i am....

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    Quote Originally Posted by bodydropped
    ive been doing that for 5 months,am i out now or what? i just want a simple life and someone to love me for me,understand. i swaer to god i thought she was the one...im destroyed right now its fuckin awful.
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    Quote Originally Posted by bodydropped
    ive been doing that for 5 months,am i out now or what? i just want a simple life and someone to love me for me,understand. i swaer to god i thought she was the one...im destroyed right now its fuckin awful.
    i'd love to here some advice from a females point of view.

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    Quote Originally Posted by speedminded
    i'd love to here some advice from a females point of view.
    so would i,i had 2 dates since th esplit and both were flops,im like IA's biggest looser now i guess
    yes i am....

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    sweet i hit 2000 posts!!! wait now im depressed again
    yes i am....

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    Yea it hurts and all but if you stop talking it will get better, those first few days and nights are gonna hurt more but if you just stop talking then you will get better and she will come back. The reason it hurts so bad right now is because you haven't let her go.

    She also probably thinks you haven't changed or thought about anything because you haven't technically taken a huge break and stopped talking.





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    Quote Originally Posted by bodydropped
    so would i,i had 2 dates since th esplit and both were flops,im like IA's biggest looser now i guess
    God you need your balls back. Don't do anything stupid. Get your own life together first before you try fixing both of yalls.





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    Quote Originally Posted by xLSTONEx
    God you need your balls back. Don't do anything stupid. Get your own life together first before you try fixing both of yalls.
    i have them back, i bust my ass with my new job to show her 60 hours a week, im fuckin tired. my life does not feel straight with out her...you gotta see her to understand i guess....i gave up cars i gave all of it up and she dont care.
    yes i am....

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    Then maybe shes not right for you. Sounds like you just haven't gotten use to a lifestyle without her in it, not as much as the I miss her becuase I love her so much part.





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    thats what she said...that was my last shot i gave it my all. im done now my son suffers a life of mixed up bull shit as a result. greedy bastards,,,,
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    yes i am....

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    ok ..kill the bf ..lol

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    Quote Originally Posted by bodydropped
    sweet i hit 2000 posts!!! wait now im depressed again
    Just do something to occupy your down time and try to focus on other things. I don't sleep anymore bc of the same thing, clean up the house, photoshop, and play project gothem racing 3 until i can't keep my eyes open...it's 6am and i'm still wide awake....i do the same thing during the week and sleep maybe 2 or 3 hours before work. i'd much rather be asleep but if i try i'll just lay there awake thinking about the worst case scenarios and never get to sleep so might as well be doing something until i pass out.

    My old motto was "best way to get over an old girlfriend is get under a new one"...it might still be true but it sucks when you have no desire to be with anyone else, i've turned 3 down the past 2 weeks. I never thought i'd wake up with a girl on top of me and still tell her no. I guess it's my fault for staying at her place though...that must have gave her the wrong impression even though i told her just friends, only want to hang out...and no sex, no relationship.

    Life was so much easier when i didn't care as much...seems like the more of a dick you are the better you're off sometimes. I used to always have someone, when it was that time of the month i had someone else...not saying i didn't care or they didn't mean anything but that still made me a jerk and i know it. I promised myself i would never go back to that lifestyle, it's been years and i refuse not to be 100% honest and genuine now...then when you find someone you honestly care about 120% then life starts to gets rough. I'm not one to initiate a break-up, i'm a relatively good judge of character and wouldn't be with them to begin with if i didn't want to be. When you open up to them and they completely mean the world to you and you give them all your attention and love it's the worst thing ever when it comes to an end. I've gone through it multiple times the past 2 years and you don't get over it very easily, if ever...you just accept it.

    There's 100,000,000+ females between the ages of 15-64 in the US alone. That's 100 MILLION women...MILLION! Write off the upper 20-30 years and obviously the bottom few then subtract about half due to marriage and you're still left with 10-20+ million females. Despite what people think it's like shooting fish in a bucket, just gotta get that right fish...and preferably the one without the fishy smell, hahaha

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    oh yeah, something to add...just go do your own thing man. You said you gave up things to be with her, i've been there and you don't have to do that. Compromising is one thing but giving up the things that make you who you are is another. I've seen it and i've done, first it's you're hobbies then it's your friends and before you know it you don't have anything or anyone to fall back on...it's no fun to be in that position.

    Try new things and meet new people, might find something you like but if you just sit at home all depressed and pitiful then you'll never get anywhere

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