here i go!!

**THEONE** · 01-13-2007, 09:05 PM

im off to my x wifes b-day party,well we are still married. the messed up part is her boyfriend will be there. i hope i dont goto jail....wish me luck!!!

**Krazykouki** · 01-13-2007, 09:10 PM

Originally Posted by bodydropped

im off to my x wifes b-day party,well we are still married. the messed up part is her boyfriend will be there. i hope i dont goto jail....wish me luck!!!

good luck...sounds like you will need it...

**quickdodge®** · 01-13-2007, 09:12 PM

Originally Posted by bodydropped

im off to my x wifes b-day party,

Didn't know this. Lolol. Later, QD.

**THEONE** · 01-13-2007, 09:21 PM

i know i talk about it all the time,i just cant let go. i bought a bunch of flowers and cake and candy and balloons and since i still have a key to her car well my car, im gonna sneak over and fill it up with all of these goodies.hehehe and a b-day card that says to my loving wife hahaha her boyfreind is gonna love it,im the devil

**quickdodge®** · 01-13-2007, 09:29 PM

Lolol. No, seriously, I didn't know you were married. I don't think I did. Were you when we went ghosthunting? Later, QD.

**THEONE** · 01-13-2007, 09:35 PM

Originally Posted by quickdodge®

Lolol. No, seriously, I didn't know you were married. I don't think I did. Were you when we went ghosthunting? Later, QD.

we never went ghost hunting,i wanted to but never got to.ive been married for the 6 years and was with her for 8 years.

**THEONE** · 01-13-2007, 09:36 PM

well,im out the door.only god can help me now!!!

**BTLFED** · 01-13-2007, 11:41 PM

Originally Posted by bodydropped

well,im out the door.only god can help me now!!!

Oh shit. I wish you luck and godspeed!

**Brett** · 01-13-2007, 11:44 PM

You alive still? lol

**Leisa** · 01-13-2007, 11:45 PM

I want an update when you get back...

**quickdodge®** · 01-13-2007, 09:36 PM

Originally Posted by bodydropped

we never went ghost hunting,i wanted to but never got to.ive been married for the 6 years and was with her for 8 years.

That's right. Dammit. I was thinking of someone else. I'll have to get with you in a month or so. Later, QD.

**speedminded** · 01-14-2007, 01:42 AM

Originally Posted by quickdodge®

That's right. Dammit. I was thinking of someone else. I'll have to get with you in a month or so. Later, QD.

You think the divorce will be final by then? You might want to wait a couple months, hahaha

**BiH1320** · 01-13-2007, 09:32 PM

I say. Beat his ass. And you get her back.

**BiH1320** · 01-13-2007, 09:33 PM

Sorry to hear that though. Its hard letting go of that type of stuff.

**BiH1320** · 01-13-2007, 09:37 PM

I wanna go ghost hunting..

**thepolecat** · 01-13-2007, 09:39 PM

so why are you going man- i dont think it could end up well. at least stay sober- that may help

**no control** · 01-13-2007, 11:39 PM

Originally Posted by jdmjames

i dont think it could end up well. at least stay sober- that may help

depends on whether or not the bf is an asshole.

**Infinite** · 01-13-2007, 11:58 PM

married but not? hmmmm
ya know legally you could have him arrested

**bdydrpdmazda** · 01-14-2007, 01:46 AM

dont let anybody take whats yours, and adultry is a crime.

**THEONE** · 01-14-2007, 04:02 AM

omg,what a night, i took her man out got him fucked up!!! now im broke.its all go though,i got like 2 hours to pour my heart out to her.i begged like a little bitch. i made her cry and so did i. i asked for a new start and i pray she will consider. what do i do?
i want my life back,should i just do the world a favor and off myself? i meant evey word i said,will a woman please chime in and say something. how can i fix this? i asked for a fresh start one step at a time. just to test the water.
im still in love with her and its makin me crazy,im fucked i know,ie gotta have her back ive gotta....

**bdydrpdmazda** · 01-14-2007, 04:05 AM

Originally Posted by bodydropped

omg,what a night, i took her man out got him fucked up!!! now im broke.its all go though,i got like 2 hours to pour my heart out to her.i begged like a little bitch. i made her cry and so did i. i asked for a new start and i pray she will consider. what do i do?
i want my life back,should i just do the world a favor and off myself? i meant evey word i said,will a woman please chime in and say something. how can i fix this? i asked for a fresh start one step at a time. just to test the water.
im still in love with her and its makin me crazy,im fucked i know,ie gotta have her back ive gotta....

what the hell did you guys split for?

**THEONE** · 01-14-2007, 04:08 AM

we got married young,wild oats i guess.. shes pregnat right now with another mans kid and we have a son together but i dont care. i really dont know why we split it was like a slap in the face...

**bdydrpdmazda** · 01-14-2007, 04:07 AM

Originally Posted by bodydropped

omg,what a night, i took her man out got him fucked up!!! now im broke.its all go though,i got like 2 hours to pour my heart out to her.i begged like a little bitch. i made her cry and so did i. i asked for a new start and i pray she will consider. what do i do?
i want my life back,should i just do the world a favor and off myself? i meant evey word i said,will a woman please chime in and say something. how can i fix this? i asked for a fresh start one step at a time. just to test the water.
im still in love with her and its makin me crazy,im fucked i know,ie gotta have her back ive gotta....

Hell yeah! and have somebody on IA take pics and post them up for us.

**xLSTONEx** · 01-14-2007, 04:18 AM

You want some real advice.

Let her go, if you act like you don't care and don't always try to call her and get out of her life she will start to miss you. Right now she is mot missing you because you haven't really gotten out of her life, and she feels she hasn't had a fair shot with this other guy yet because you are still around. So if you just leave her alone she will start to realize that you mean a lot to her and really miss you and she will come back to you, garunteed. Happened to me multiply times.

Also, don't beg.

**THEONE** · 01-14-2007, 04:21 AM

your the 10th person to say that, i did beg i guess, if i wait mybe she will fall for someone else. i wanna move on but its to damn hard..

**bdydrpdmazda** · 01-14-2007, 04:22 AM

Never beg dude, has some fucking pride, not too much but enough to not beg some woman to dump her future babies daddy and come back to you while you cry like a little school girl. Stop showing her attention and make her think you are gone and she will miss you and she will be the one begging in no time at all.

**THEONE** · 01-14-2007, 04:28 AM

ive been doing that for 5 months,am i out now or what? i just want a simple life and someone to love me for me,understand. i swaer to god i thought she was the one...im destroyed right now its fuckin awful.

**bdydrpdmazda** · 01-14-2007, 04:33 AM

Originally Posted by bodydropped

ive been doing that for 5 months,am i out now or what? i just want a simple life and someone to love me for me,understand. i swaer to god i thought she was the one...im destroyed right now its fuckin awful.

No comment

**speedminded** · 01-14-2007, 04:33 AM

Originally Posted by bodydropped

ive been doing that for 5 months,am i out now or what? i just want a simple life and someone to love me for me,understand. i swaer to god i thought she was the one...im destroyed right now its fuckin awful.

i'd love to here some advice from a females point of view.

**THEONE** · 01-14-2007, 04:35 AM

Originally Posted by speedminded

i'd love to here some advice from a females point of view.

so would i,i had 2 dates since th esplit and both were flops,im like IA's biggest looser now i guess

**THEONE** · 01-14-2007, 04:37 AM

sweet i hit 2000 posts!!! wait now im depressed again

**xLSTONEx** · 01-14-2007, 04:38 AM

Originally Posted by bodydropped

so would i,i had 2 dates since th esplit and both were flops,im like IA's biggest looser now i guess

God you need your balls back. Don't do anything stupid. Get your own life together first before you try fixing both of yalls.

**xLSTONEx** · 01-14-2007, 04:37 AM

Yea it hurts and all but if you stop talking it will get better, those first few days and nights are gonna hurt more but if you just stop talking then you will get better and she will come back. The reason it hurts so bad right now is because you haven't let her go.

She also probably thinks you haven't changed or thought about anything because you haven't technically taken a huge break and stopped talking.

**xLSTONEx** · 01-14-2007, 04:43 AM

Then maybe shes not right for you. Sounds like you just haven't gotten use to a lifestyle without her in it, not as much as the I miss her becuase I love her so much part.

**THEONE** · 01-14-2007, 04:47 AM

thats what she said...that was my last shot i gave it my all. im done now my son suffers a life of mixed up bull shit as a result. greedy bastards,,,,

**mengus200sx** · 01-14-2007, 05:03 AM

ok ..kill the bf ..lol

**speedminded** · 01-14-2007, 06:42 AM

oh yeah, something to add...just go do your own thing man. You said you gave up things to be with her, i've been there and you don't have to do that. Compromising is one thing but giving up the things that make you who you are is another. I've seen it and i've done, first it's you're hobbies then it's your friends and before you know it you don't have anything or anyone to fall back on...it's no fun to be in that position.

Try new things and meet new people, might find something you like but if you just sit at home all depressed and pitiful then you'll never get anywhere

**5thgcelica** · 01-14-2007, 08:48 AM

^^^ listen to him and xlstonex

**scttydb411** · 01-14-2007, 10:37 AM

forget her and concentrate on your kid. your kid is the one that's probably in the middle here your wife is already pregnant w/ someone else's kid. who has custody right now? she's already moved on...she's got a boyfriend and pregnant (hopefully by the boyfriend). if it's not him there is even more chaos in your kids life than just you and your soon to be ex wife.

think about what you and she do and how it affects your kid. alter your life to give your kid a better, more loving one.

one more thing...don't put your kid in the middle and talk about these things in front of him and be discreet when he asks about it.

hope this helps or take it for what it's worth.

**BTLFED** · 01-14-2007, 10:43 AM

Holy shit. This is the best series of posts I have ever seen Landon make. And what he and Speedminded is saying is truth. I've been there man (although no children involved) and I know it hurts. You really need to just find something else to take up your time. If you just sit there and think about it it's just going to make things worse.

Soo....you still have those paint guns?

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