Hanging out that often is just a recipe for disaster, man. You got to have periods of separation from time to time. I'm not saying weeks or anything, but it isn't healthy to spend 4 days a week all together. People will start getting too comfortable with each other and inhibitions will relax and then irritants start evolving from the actions of some of the people. You'll begin to grow tired of always being around someone. You can say you're family now and everything will always be good, but believe me, it won't. You want to know how i know this? Two reasons. I've been in this same predicament. I've been in clubs that wanted to hang around each other damn near 24 hours a day all the time. Everyone wants alone time. Say you want some alone time and some folks come around. Well now you're irritated because you're just not in the mood for company. You let the visitor(s) know and they leave. They may take your request the wrong way and it runs from there. And two, look at this thread. You've already got a beef (misunderstanding) over just the logo design.Originally Posted by GOT_PURP
This too, is a bad way to view things from a club aspect. You just can NOT expect someone to put something that is REALLY important in life (family, school, work) on the backburner for a car club. And I don't mean important as a knock to a club, but a club will not make or break your life. Getting upset because some folks don't/can't hang out all the time because they are studying or spending family time really doesn't reflect well on your character. You'll lose members faster than if the Klan accepted a black man in.
I hope you don't see this as a diss to you or anything negative towards you or the club. I posted this, knowing it's none of my business, as a (hopefully) positive way to view your thoughts as you posted them. Hopefully this will help you out. Later, QD.
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