dont pay attention to all the guys busting ur balls its just part of the initiation process... so far i think the best idea is the one about looking on hoda-tech site...
but just some ideas of what I would do if it was mine...

first of like someone said detail the shit out of it nothing worse than a dirty ass car... before u go spending money on performance stuff u really need to do some reading on what route u would prefer to take. Turbo? N/A? SC? Show? its all a matter of preference but they all have there pro's and con's..
me personnally i would (depending on the money) would drop it , put a lip on it tint the windows, some wheels. then save up buy a gsr or an H22 motor and build it nad boost it.. in that exact order. then after wards worry about exhaust and maybe some cosmetics...
either way good luck on what ever u decide let us know if u need any more help .
but be prepared for the asshole comments just dont take them to heart most people on here just like to give people a hard time