Quote Originally Posted by TallGuy
He can but Georgia tends to lean towards the mother. Have you seen the restraining order or been served with it? If not she might be blowing smoke up your ass. I've never seen a Judge issue a restraining order without some sort of physical evidence of abuse. IE bruising, marks, or police report.
I have never abused her or my daughter....why would I do that. I'm not a piece of shit. There has never been a police report because like I said I've never hit her. As for the restraining order...I was served with it Monday night at 9:30 pm. It says that I have beat her, verbally abused her, and threatened to kill her boyfriend. (all in her hand writing as per law I have to have a copy).


- Have never abused her or beat her
- Verbal abuse....i guess that stems from her yelling at my daughter for no reason so i yell at her about that.
- hahahaha I told her that if she moves in with her new boyfriend that he better never lay a hand on my daughter or else I will come for him (parental instinct). Ohh and other than that I have a voicemail on my phone (dont know if it will be admisable(sp) in court), but it is pretty much her boyfriend saying he was going to "stomp my ass and put me in the ground." He cannot and never will be able to discipline MY daughter. Hell I don't even spank my daughter if she is bad. She knows better lol.


Quote Originally Posted by nsany(atl)
Your case is Monday and you are just now looking for a Lawer? Not giving him much time to prepare. How long have you known about this?
As for that yes I know...I was not given much of a chance to prepare either. Served with the order monday night and on the order it said i have court the following monday morning. My ex's uncle called me yesterday to warn me...he thinks what they are doing is wrong but is trying not to get in the middle so as not to start any inter-family(if this is a word) drama. He basically told me that they will say things such as I abused my ex in front of my daughter and that I have never paid for a single thing in her 3 year existance (bullshit I pay my daughters preschool monthly, as-well-as, clothing, food when she is with me (otherwise her mom, my ex, is on food stamps even though she lives in a $300k+ home in grayson), toys, etc.


Like I have said I do not know how to handle this. I stopped smoking weed in highschool when I found out that my now-ex was pregnant for fear of one day her using any habits i have against me. Now she is trying to use the fact that I like to have a beer or two with friends...rarely getting drunk. The only time I have gotten drunk are at parties with a designated driver.

I hate this situation and cannot wait for it to be over.