So what's the point of holding a dog down while they struggle until they get so scared they pee? That's certainly not teaching them anything besides "BE FRIGHTENED OF ME".

The goal of training your dog should be: Stay smarter than your dog. If you can't do that without bullying it - you're obviously not smarter than a dog.

Sorry if I don't agree with your theories on dog training, but you're out of your mind on some of your viewpoints.