After reading the entire thread I wanna add another thing

Just like you're picky, the dude MAY not like what HE sees. Even if you're "pretty and have big boobs"(that aint even CLOSE to enough for a REAL dude) he MAY not be that into you and dunno how to tell you...so he gets the draws and plays the "game" until shit gets rocky...some men don't get much action, so as long as you're giving up the panties, he's gonna stick around...

ever heard the expression...

"women fake orgams, men fake whole relationships"

unfortunately this is true on a few occasions...