After reading the entire thread I wanna add another thing
Just like you're picky, the dude MAY not like what HE sees. Even if you're "pretty and have big boobs"(that aint even CLOSE to enough for a REAL dude) he MAY not be that into you and dunno how to tell you...so he gets the draws and plays the "game" until shit gets rocky...some men don't get much action, so as long as you're giving up the panties, he's gonna stick around...
ever heard the expression...
"women fake orgams, men fake whole relationships"
unfortunately this is true on a few occasions...
Sorry, I didn't mean for it to be offensive to you personally...just sayin thats not all that guys who actually WANT a long-term GF look for...I'm sure they're nice tho...lol
I realize I may also be speaking for myself...
just more tr00f luv...no beef
I wrote about this in a blog...click on "FreeMyndz" in my sig and it'll take you to my myspace page...read thru that *and add me*
REPS!!!! Now that's the damn truth. If the first thing someone wants to talk about is sex, an alarm should go off in ur head LOL. *run*
I had a thought. Online dating allows you to learn a person's personality first. When irl it takes a lot more time. Even though its easier, I still don't think I could do it.
People say a lot of stuff online that they wouldn't say irl. IA is a prime example. Hell this thread is a prime example of that lol. Some of ya'll talking the talk in here, but don't walk the walk irl. Just sayin.
Either way, you don't REALLY know what ur getting yourself into until you meet them irl. So its really not a big time frame difference. IMO.
My boyfriend is better than you...
this thread had come a long way hasn't it?
but the fact that has been made most social sites or fourms are only what 10% to 30% made up lies? can't really base anything off the internet, or even real life... all there is left to do is be open and putting yourself out there. The best thing I thought of is and that's if you could; but date your best friend who better than anyone to know you best? but that's a whole new subject... and of course them being of the oppisite sex or whatever floats your boat![]()
^^^ Hence why I keep my 'girl' friends at arms length.
Once you the true "Friend-Zone" (And it does exist!)....you never leave.
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I met my girlfriend off www.okcupid.com on accident, I was on there dicking around and sent her some random message, been together happily every since. I made fun of everyone who was on dating websites and such too but hey..haha
So I wanna talk about how these ****** in my complex being pushing up on me HARD! Even when I am in my night clothes lol. There is this one dude I just run from now because he seems so desperate at times and he will not take no as an answer! I mean I do have certain things I look for in a person (can't remember the name of it right now lol) and he def doesn't have it!It's to the point he is making me feel uncomfortable. Him and his homeboy be trying to holla at me on the regular. Like every damn time they see me lol. I keep lying and saying I have a boyfriend, but the other lives in my complex and watches my door like a hawk because he calls me out on it. He told me "how come I don't ever see any dudes come over here? You say you have a man, but I don't ever see him." I be lying my ass off like "oh, well I go see him a lot and I work often so he doesn't really come over here." I've started having guy friends come by every once and a while hoping he will think they are my boyfriend lmao! He is watching me man! WTH?! He's gon make sure I'm his girl if he has anything to say about it. I hope he doesn't result to just beating me down until I give up. The fact he watches me that much scares me
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Well, I hope it's not that serious. They just seem really horny lol. Unless I can make a complaint about horny guys pushing up on mePlus this complex is starting to go down hill. The people that are renting here recently are how do you say....... a little ghetto. The place is nice, but the people
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that online dating just isn't for me. i'd much rather make a friend online. if she's cool and we make it to the next level,great,if not that's cool too. sometimes i feel like danny glover in lethal weapon"I'M GETTIN' TOO OLD FOR THIS SHIT" lol
yeah, I'm down for meeting (going thru personalities, pretty pics,etc) online (setting it up), but after that, its gotta be personal...
never thought about it that way...good shit...
^^ You want me to say it in French? LOL
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huh what? I don't mind meeting someone online,but after that all correspondence must be made on the phone, in person, and the occasional IM...
we clear?...lol
That comment can be very true and the reason I say can is because it depends on the situation. In order for there to be a first attraction, there has to be something physical that initially draws that person (assuming they meet in person) into the other. Maybe the same for online as well, because I looked at their pics and then looked at their profile to see if I like them. I'm sure I'm not the only one who does that. But then if you meet someone online without seeing what they look like and you like them based on convo then yes it is possible.
I voted yes, but I guess I really never dated someone online...
not to sound likea net n3wb, but people really DATE online? I guess I never considered the definition. I thought online dating was MEETING people online then being around that person AFTER you meet for the first time..
lol...so again? how hoes one DATE online?
I'm pretty silly and I have a WICKED imagination so I imagine people too scared to come out from behind a screen so he/she send someone an e-coffee and e-donuts...then they graduate to going out to eat at e-Ruths Chris...call me crazy, but that IS pretty gh3y...can I change my vote?
wow, thats insensitive...
p.s.- is that the purpose of things like 2nd life?!?!?
p.p.s- NOT clowning, just curious...
Uh, me....lol?
Soooo, shawty what yo name is? What it is shawty, what it is!!!!?
Geez, take all the fun out of it.
"Now baby girl had dumped me. She no longer wants me. I'm no longer hired, she said that I've been fired "
In recent news facebook dating proves to be better than Myspace, E-Harmony, and all others. Live chat is where its at, lol. I'm going to find my diamond in the rough one way or another.
/scarcasm