tough it out Justin. you have nothing to lose. a house will always present itself. a plethora of money will NOT.

stack your paper and get a house that the both of you will be happy with. you THINK you're unhappy now. if she's unhappy just wait... you'll be EXTREMELY unhappy. So suck it up and stay in this practically rent free home. at least you're not back home with Mom or on the street. many would kill to have half the abode that you have.