Why does it matter who is right? Shouldnt the focus be on WHAT is right??
I care not WHO I learn a fact, tidbit, or piece of info from. The person stating a fact or giving their understanding has no bearing on what the facts actually are or might be.

Your question was...

How is Jesus God, when he is supposed to be the son of God? Is he his own Dad?

That would mean that the people in Alabama had it right all along and the rest of the world was wrong that incest is best....in some weird way. Later, QD.

Making the point that NO ONE truly UNDERSTANDS the exact nature of how God became a man, or fully comprehends the nature of the Godhead (even the Bible calls it a mystery) I answered it honestly with what I do know and understand. Thats all anyone can do, especially given the gravity of this specific subject.

If someone has further insight into it I'd like to hear it.