Dont get married, I have 2 kids, 1 on the way, 2 different baby's mama. Sex is great with my wife("sex" not making love). And Oprah can kiss my ass someone shouldnt offer their help on an opinion who hasnt been there, ***** isnt married and doesnt have kids so shut the F up on the subject, now on life yes she has been through a lot but on relationships stay out! And Dr.Phil can go to HELL! WHEW that feels better.