Good luck man.

I was adopted when I was 2weeks old. Never knew my real parents. I joke about it saying my mom was a prostitute and my father a fat drunk guy who had needed to pay to get laid.

I know that the adoption process is long and hard. I think my parents waited a year for me and the same for my sister.

Plus you get all the joys and miseries that a birth parent gets. You get to see the first steps and then you get to enjoy the hatred your kid will have for you when they turn 14years old.

The only difference is your wife doesn't have to pee, poop, fart, vomit or tear her vagina infront of complete strangers.