^^ agree with the space thing. don't pressure her or drill her cuz it will make it worse. i went through the same thing last summer and i boxed her in. she had a kid by another dude and was pregnant at the time. she claims she cheated and it was not my kid. she moved to va and now 9 mos. later she claims the kid is mine and she misses me dearly. she calls once a week or more. the ball is in her court. it may hurt but you gotta ride it out. i should have. now i have a kid in another state and can't see the little one. not yet at least. i can't drill her on that one either.