Quote Originally Posted by MKIV VR6
I dont see what there is for her to be confused about. he screwed her over and you took her in. after a year and nine months there should be no question of who she wants to be with. there's not much you can do. your not going to break up with her, so it is all in her hands. if she wants him and not you, then the bitch will leave you. in which case she would have eventually left you at some point in life anyways. if she wants you, then she's a good girlfriend and she made the right choice. unfortunatly, i really dont think much of it is in your control and you'll just have to wait. i hope everything works out for you.
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no reason for her to be confused if she is really in love with you. look at it this way though at least she's open and you can TRY to prepare yourself for the worse. IMO break up with her before she does it to you IF you think she's going back to him that is