Quote Originally Posted by HvyArms
Hmm good points

1: No she's definately not a man, definately not.
2: Nah, the guy isn't gay. He was trying to be respectful, and make her comfortable in his home.
3: Yes it was a weeknight.
4: When he offered her something to drink, she did assume he meant wine. So maybe she didn't want him to drive after drinking?
Ok... So now that we have 1 and 2 out of the way... #3, so they watched a movie on a week night... Do you happen to know what she had packed to wear to sleep in or even to wear to work the next day?? If she packed something sexy (lingerie) as opposed to maybe flannel pants and a sweatshirt, she might be insinuating she wanted to be seen in and turn the guy on... In other words, she's easy and is not the type to be in a commited relationship... If she packed something not so sexy, there might still be hope! #4, She automatically assumed wine: white, red or blush? Typically white or blush means she's drinking to get a buzz or drunk (which coinsides with the sexy lingerie, same as liquor)... Red means she's all about health and wants a conversation to evolve (meaningful relationship type)... Beer would have meant she's spunky and down to earth and wants to have a good time (not so much ready for a serious relationship either)... Anyway, the guy was a gentleman, made her comfortable enough for her to want a move made, yet, he wasn't ready for that... Good for him.. So, now she's curious as to what he wants out of it.. Be upfront and honest... He should tell her his intentions, and if she's not interested, she'll leave.